| Phorm, look man, I'm feeling quite kind today, So I'll give you a lil bit of tough love today, ok? cool.
Look, if you have three girls calling you, is not just by coincidence; YOU MUST BE DOING SOMETHING GOOD, you agree so far, good?
Just be reading at your posts I can tell right away what your sticking point is, and it's a very painful one.
"YOU'RE STILL SEEKING APPROVAL"
Plus
"YOU NEED MORE INNER-GAME WORKOUT"
Do you know what the point of conversational skills?
It's to get a person to open up, but if you have three girls calling you, they must have already open up to you, so you problem is not knowing what to talk about, or how to talk about it; it's not DECIDING YOURSELF to do it, I bet you half of the people here don't have three girls calling them, and they are here giving you advice.
So when you post here on what you "NEED" to talk about because you wanna keep them interested, you're just lowering your value, ask yourself this, Do I really need to come up with topics? or is it the way I say it that conveys personality?
I can bet you a hundred bucs the experts, the real experts, will say it's the way you say the one that conveys more personality and adds more attraction.
Don't forget to do, what got you there in the first place...
Finally,
Accept your progress man!
And give yourself credit for it, if possible exaggerate it
Wake up and make the calls yourself, dont make me go there and bitch slap you, so you wake up.
* So stop seeking approval, from them and from us, and people around you, you don't need it, so STOP ACTING LIKE IT.
* Where is your confidence at? I can't help to wonder that You fake feeling confident when talking to these chicks, and that's what's stopping you from moving on or is it that you juts "forgot"
Think about it
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