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 Post subject: Gamming the ex
PostPosted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 8:00 pm 
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So my ex broke up with me about 6 months ago. In that time ive gotten into pua. I wasn’t an afc before hand but none the less I wanted to brush up on my gamming skillz. Now about a month ago I started dating this Hb 10 that went to cosmetology school with my ex. The ex saw this chick leaving comments on my-myspace and emailed her about me. I’m not to sure what was said and I don’t care, the point is, she must still have feelings for me if she's all up on myspace page.

Like said we broke up 6 months ago, but I still think about my ex all the time. Now Ive gammed a fair amount of hbs in that time but I can’t get the ex off my mind :( . Would it be a bad idea to start trying to game my ex again? If so how you I go about doing it? I was thinking of sending her an email saying I have an extra ticket for some event and ask if she would like to come with.. If she says no and is a big bitch to me I’m going to tell her that I forgot her email was in my contact list or some shit and I sent the email to everyone on my contact list. Am I setting myself up to get pwn3d?

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 10:40 pm 
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Am I setting myself up to get pwn3d?
Ah the never-dying ex issues. You're setting yourself up to get an ear-full from the guys on here, that's for sure.

I'm under the impression that if you haven't learned your lesson about your ex, you're going to go back no matter what advice is given. IMO - bad idea. If you can move past her, you should. Your new found PUA knowledge isn't going to save a failed relationship, at least in my experience.

What the fuck is wrong with the HB10 she went to school with?!? Sounds like great karma to me!

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haha get ready for the bombardments on the ex issue:

first off let me have the honor of saying things before anyone else gets too, yep yep.

remember, there's a reason you two broke up, and im pretty sure it was a damn good reason too. so ask yourself if you're willing to put yourself through all that bullshit again.
now if you can't get your mind off her, i say settle down as a fuck buddy with her. and think of her as a piece of meat that satisfies your dick to help you get over her. because honestly, theres a reason shes your ex and that you two weren't togethor for the past 6 months, and that reason isn't going to go anywhere if you do get back with her.

but nothing i say or what anyone says is going to make a difference with what you do. i say go for it and learn from your experience.

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I would like to add that you should never, ever, under any circumstances get back with an ex who only wants you again because of jealousy or because you're harder to get now. Why? Because that is ALL she wants you for! Once she's got you back, she will lose interest in you again because the jealousy is gone and she will break up with you again. I've made this mistake before, and I've seen plenty of people around me do it too.

I knew this one girl who kept going through this same stupid pattern with her ex over and over again: She would break up with him, then she sees him with another girl and decides she wants him again, then she gets back with him and of course he's the same person so she breaks up with him again, then he goes and finds another girl so she wants him back again, and so on and so fourth. This cycle continued for about a year and it wasn't fun for either of them. She didn't like anything about him; she only wanted to be with him as long as someone else wanted to be with him. It's an ego/insecurity issue that people shouldn't let govern their lives, but they do.

DON'T DO IT.


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I went for it. I shot her a "world class" email and she did'nt even write back.... Now I feel like an AFC and my one-its feeling for her have started all over again, why oh why did do this.

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Bam! Another lesson learned the hard way. Why ask a question if you aren't going to take anyone's advice?

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Damn bro! I hear what you saying, I did the same mistake and I ended breaking up with this HB 10 a year ago for my ex we and only lasted 2 month together. I learn my lesson thou this time. You better hope your ex doesn't tell your current girl that you wrote that letter or else forget about it bro, GOOD LUCK DUDE!


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because im dumb as shit :oops:

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dude, personally i think too much shit can go wrong with email.

I would build some rapport with her (especially if you havent really been talking to her since the breakup) until you get to the point where you can ask her to the show without it being a big deal. Personally i think that using the "contacts list" excuse is a SKETCHY backup. I'd also like to point out that if you let oneitis affect your actions towards her, HBs can smell that a mile away and will qualify you as needy, whereas showing that you have NEW girls is a better dhv.

good luck man


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