ok, so there's this 9 at work and i sent her a message on facebook last night, you know the IM type. Anyway, she totally ignored me! The message was a 'busting her balls' message, cause she smokes and I have a knick name for her as 'fag ash lil' the message just said 'alright fag ash lil'. So, today I saw her at work and when I spoke to her I immediately busted her balls, calling her 'an ignorant get!' (grinning all the time so she knew I was busting her). She gave me a crap excuse as:
HB9 'I never reply to them IM's on facebook'
Me 'I can see you ignorant get!'
HB9 'I don't, I only go online to check my emails and that box flashes up with messages from people' (the IM box in bottom right of screen)
Me 'It's ok, It won't happen again!'
the conversation changed then to her weight as a mate was sat with me. Which of course I busted on her saying:
Me 'yeah, I can see you have a lot of work to do' (grinning)
HB9 'thanks,I can take that as a compliment, I think'
I continued busting her balls for a few minutes and I was getting a bit bored as her fit mate (also a 9) was giving me IOI's across the room and my mate was giving me better conversation!
I dig this chick and I know I can play it cool with her on my own, what I'm after of you guys is another ball buster about her ignoring me online. Post away friends.

PS: escalation tips also welcome!

Turnofclass

Just be yourself and you'll do much better. I don't understand people why people want every line, technique and method to avoid having to build their natural personality up and instead prefer to build a database of tactics. Instead of enjoying their interactions from the first opener to the end of the relationship men calculate and control their behavior like AFCs to supplicate and act correctly so a woman will like them.

Back when I used Mystery Method I was constantly worried about every move I was making and whether the woman would look favorably on me. It was Mystery's greatest illusion: a woman thinks you're dominating her reality like an alpha male when in reality she is dominating yours by controlling your behavior.

If you're using David DeAngelo's stuff learn how to use it correctly. It's not your fault but the man is social moron who took being witty, renamed it cocky-funny and called it his own discovery.

If you're going to neg a woman mercelessly she is going to think you're an arrogant prick and you're going to spend the rest of your time working there with her ignoring you and disliking you; me and a lot of other people I have worked with and spoken to have been there. You need to stop thinking of it like a system; "I need to bust her balls in order to get IOIs to escalate." Naturals don't have to think and can simply act. If you're going to use personality facets that aren't the real you you're never going to have it as easy as naturals.

If you're content with using techinques and materials it's fine but the thing that always disturbed me was knowing I wasn't getting the best for myself and that I was like a piano player reading from sheet music; once the music was pulled away I couldn't do shit to make things happen. Naturals can work under any circumstance and handle it the way they want BECAUSE they are not worried about what the woman will think and they know that their personality is enough to keep her interested. Mystery Method boys know how to look interesting. Naturals know how to be intersting at the core of their being.