What do you do if during your interactions with a woman, she negs you consistently. Often to test or be playful.
What is the right way to respond?

Neg her, tease her and play back. That's what she's looking for. She wants to make it fun and make a game out of it, which is the only way I will even bother, so I'd say that's a good thing.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

neg and tease back.......

''always keep your frame'' and ''ALWAYS have a better answer''

Sounds like you're talking about shit tests, michaellangelo (Fun Fact: Michaelangelo was my favorite ninja turtle as a kid).

Never jump through her hoops. If she puts you down, never agree with her. I've even heard guys put themselves down MORE than the girl does.

Just the other day a girl threw out a shit test at a guy in my class by saying "I'm suprised you even got that question right". His response? "Oh, I know. I'm barely passing". Just...no...
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Shit tests require quick-wit to conquer, but they are dragons that must be slayed (I tried turning it into a Ninja Turtles refference, but they don't fight dragons and I'm too lazy/careless to delete what I just wrote so I'll continue typing anyway).


- June

I could totally see myself saying that line actually and I can guarantee that it would work, cause I say shit like that all the time.

HB: You're stupid
Me: Yeah, I know. I'm just a big friggin idiot.
*Hands in naughty places and hot make outs*

Seriously self depricating humor is important and powerful stuff, you just have to deliver it the right way. It demonstrates that you don't think you're better than them, as well as totally not playing the game they expect, so they don't really know what to do with it and it takes down their shields. Now you don't want them to think you seriously think you're crap, cause you KNOW you're really good shit, you're just not gonna brag about it, cause you don't care how awesome you are, it's not a big deal, you'd rather make fun of it.

If they were getting good enough grades that mine wouldn't piss her off (yeah sorry I'm smart and writing this from my point of view ok?) then I'd say something like, "I know! I only got 94% on that last test, so Pa's gonna beat me." Just totally fuck with her, but that only works well with people getting around the same grade as you.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

[quote="June"]Sounds like you're talking about shit tests, michaellangelo (Fun Fact: Michaelangelo was my favorite ninja turtle as a kid).

thats correct june, i took the question as asking about tests and negs...

for me, when a girl negs or teases back, thats when the game begins and when the fun starts.... 90% of guys look at you with a wtf? look on their face when you tell a girl she's a geek or brat...... but the only one that is in on the frame is you and the girl...........haha.....