Hey im new here guys and im sorry if this post isn't in the right place or if I shouldn't be asking questions and telling a half field report at the same time................. but here goes

I'm 18, from Northern Ireland and im relatively new to this stuff and ive did a lot of reading on other sites and ive read 'The Game' and 'Mystery Method' studied a lot of NLP and mentalism trying to get myself some short of an advantage as........... im only 5'7 and i suffer a lot from approach anxiety........., a lot of girls fancy me and I used to get loads when I was younger but that was............
when one had to do was get a friend to ask the girl out for you but those days are over and I miss them but without further ado here is what happened to me over the last 2 and a half weeks

So 2 Saturdays ago i was out at my local backyard in the minor town that I live which is the only bar i can really go out in because a lot of gangster wannabes pick fights with me every time they see me for no reason in the other places but the point is I rely on this place and you''ll see why this is worrying me

My two mates were out with me and I opened this 2 set that i didn't recognize (they both had blond hair now 'and had improved' and my target was a HB9) but i knew when I was seeing my x gf so from there on it was sweet I eventually bounced the girl 'finola' outside for a smoke and we were talking about the meaning of life when I said "You know what your not as bad as I thought you were.... here put your number in that!" and passed her my phone

She put her number in it and I was txting her all that week and we were getting on great and were meant to meet at the bar (My backyard) the next Saturday and that was all good

Come the next Saturday she wasnt able to show up so I decided to practise a little more off the techniques ive been reading so I seen this 3 set outside in the beer garden when I was talking to my mate (who knows nothing about the arts and is a bit shy) I pointed at one off them and said "You! how do I know your face were you in the paper for something?" She said no her mates laughed and said "Ah well did you know that 93% of women masturbate in the shower? the other 7% sing, do you know what they sing? they said no and I said "You must be the ones that masturbate then!" They practically keeled over laughing and invited me to sit with them

One of the girls 'Debra HB7' was showing me a lot off IOI's show eventually I did the same "put your number in there" trick and it worked like a charm (thank you PUA stuff) but as I handed my fone to her the girl 'finola' txt me saying "do you miss me? x" and she read it unintentionally and asked me what it was about I said "I have a lot of girls txting me" and laughed it off she still put her number in it and that was sweet

Later on that night finola txt me and I had arranged to meet her today and I thought fcuk your girl Debra I want finola and thought nothing off it

yesterday finola txt me asking me if I enjoyed myself on Saturday night and if there was any girls there..... I said yes but not as nice as you

She then replied was my mate Debra there? FUCK i screamed and then proceeded to try and worm my way out off it by explaining that she wasnt there and I didnt think she was keen on meeting me so I got her number

She said its ok its not like we were going with each other so when do you wanna meet up?

Thought I was clean free and was even listening to smooth criminal on my laptop thinking I was the dogs balls and txt back asking her to pick the day im free all week

She then txt me from Debra's fone saying "I dunno when suits you, I have no money in my fone txt back to my mobile"

FUCK i screamed they are sitting beside each other discussing me FUCK!

They then starting taking the piss out of me saying "We were laughing about how you used the same trick on both of us" then "Which one are you gonna pick?" but i didnt know whether they were making a dick out of me or what so I said "I dont have a leg to stand it seems on so im gonna fuck off now"

They then asked me 2before you go you hadda tell us which one your gonna pick!" I told Finola that I wanted her (like a retard) and they said nothing else for a while

Finola txt back after a while saying "Thats what happens when you try and get into 2 friends,.....silly Billy x" the kiss at the end made me think I still have a chance so later on that night I txt Finloa saying "Thanks for that earlier on that made my day" she replied with "lol" then I txt back saying "well at least you got your kicks for the day lol" and didnt get a reply

Sorry that this has been such a long story but I hope you found it amusing as it is in its own right the

thing im asking is should I txt her tomorrow? and if so what should I say? The reason im worried is that these girls go to my backyard all the time and pretty soon they will be all talking about me and they will have me black listed before I know it so I REALLY need help

Thanks for any advice you guys give me it is much appreciated

Just a few things I noticed really about what happened. The first is that you made a mistake when you lied, you said Debra wasn't there, why? There is no point in lying because it will always come back and bite you. You don't have to prove yourself at all, so remember that next time and if you are asked if someone was there tell the truth, as you said, its a small town, it is more than likely someone you know will be there.

The second was the one that you need to make sure doesn't happen in your game, they made you choose! You have to remember that you are the prize and do not have to qualify yourself to them, once you start to do this that is all you will end up doing.

I wouldn't bother texting this girl, I would just leave it, she will no doubt text you after a couple of days after realising she has been a dick. Also, if you try and sort this out, say by talking to the girls then it will only get worse, don't mention it they will maybe tell 1 or 2 friends, ask them not to tell anyone and the whole town will find out, its how women work.

- SC

1 - Please man, for the sake of God, use some form of formal punctuation!

2 - I gotta agree with Second Chance: don't lie. Ever. I even tell girls that I forgot their name. Either I make sure there's nothing to it and that it's light-hearted, or I'm straight up. For example: "Hey man, I'm bad with names: what did you say your name was again?"
I know it's probably really bad for my game to do this, but nothing beats honesty and they still dig me.

I seriously would have teased Finola with the fact that Debra and I had so much fun on Saturday. Say something like "Was Debby there!?? Hahaha! Damn straight she was! Godamn we had so much fun! You know you *really* shouldn't leave me alone with your friends!"
Play the man-whore! It works with latin girls lol!

3 - After both girls had started talking about me on the phone, I might have told the two girls that I wouldn't choose either of them, as if they weren't good enough for my standards. But that's what I've learned from a friend who's a natural. I didn't learn that attitude from the community.
It just seems to me that if you're gonna go down, you go down having fun and teasing them/pissing 'em off, lol!
In the best of scenarios, this attitude has actually attracted girls towards me! So you never know what'll happen!

4 - I'd still go to your favoured bar/club. It sucks if they'll be there to ruin your game, but you can always avoid them or, even better, shoo them away as if they were 2 little naughty kids on your front lawn. Girls seem to like the competition/challenge of being shooed away! Besides, you don't need them.
If I were you, I'd drop it but I'm not a MPUA, so maybe you've got a chance! Good luck man!

Thanks for the advice guys you stopped my impulses right in there tracks, earlier I was for txting finola asking her if she was talking to me or not forgetting that it would diminish my HV

And your right Brainz mate I should have told her that i was talking to her right off and got her number would have been badass lol

fuck the bitches there will be more and if they give me any shit at the bar ill just laugh at them and tell them to shoo away ta fuck you little gremlins

Then start opening some sets in front of them

Cheers Brainz and SC

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