how do you guys start using kino... when do you know when you have built enough attraction that she will not resist and where do you start (ie. what do you touch to build the initial kino when there is still a little resistance?)

I like to start rough-housing. You can tickle 'em, or play in their hair. I'm not sure if today's efforts backfired on me or not -- we'll see what the forum members think, but in the mean time I can say this: I usually start by playing in their hair; girls *hate* this and want their revenge. That's fine by me: let the rough-housing begin!

When do I start doing kino? Whenever I feel comfortable with the idea of taking my teasing to a higher level.
That's my 2 cents.

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you can acctually do it right off the bat from seeing them. When you touch them lets say on the elbow when you just meet them, it developes comfort and she is more likely to respond to you.

1) palm read
2) thumb war
3) slap hands
4) shaking hands
5) touch shoulder/arm/hand

I use Style's rings test as a way to initially begin kino on a target's fingers...No resistance at all so far. Then when I be C & F or I put a fake IOD, I playfully slap the target on the upper arm...very lightly. No resistance as well. Good and simple way to begin kino.

If its sort of noisy I would just pretend you didn't hear her and gently touch the back off her elbow and lean in till my cheek is touching hers

otherwise look at anything distinctive about her clothes like a belt or ear rings touch them (and her) and ask about them which would also be a good opportunity to neg her

but im a newbie so don't exactly take me for granted as what I said there is probably full of mistakes

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As long as she is giving you the okay via body language.

If you're talking to each other in a club, I usually put my left or right leg between both of her legs (dont overdo this ). My hands are touching/holding her hands. You don't really have to lean in and you build kino while your at it. You're standing in her "intimate zone".

Oh, once I had a girl that said she had bear in her eyes. I gently wiped it away (never saw any bear though ). Excellent boyfriend kino!

I usually start with a high five right off the bat. Usually if a girl does, says something i like or approve of i reward her with a high five.

Example:
Her: I'm into martial arts, etc. etc.
Me: No way me too ive been doing it since i was seven, blah blah that is pretty awesome high five

Another thing i like to do to start kino is to lightly slap the top of her hand if she says,does something i dont like.

Example:
Her: Wow that girls hair over there looks like shit
Me: give me your hand (or ill just grab it and lightly slap the top). Be nice! Yeah it does look bad but no need to be a jackass (said playfully and with a smile).

The hand squeeze is definitly one of my favorites. But also being playful with kino works equally as well:

I had a few of my friends over watching a movie and I ended up sitting next to my target. The love seat we were sitting on reclines. I reclined me side. She then asked how did I do that? So reached over her and pulled the lever that reclined her side(kino).

Next, the AC in my house was blasting and the basement is kinda cool to begin with, so I got us a blanket. This was so that when I started playfully playing some "footsie" no one would notice since we were under the blanket. Sure enough, with a playful kick on my part, with the added security of the blanket she kicked back, then it escalated to our feet massaging eachother.

Sure enough, when she went to the bathroom I followed and waited outside until she was finished. The next thing I knew, the kino escalated to us making out on the floor in the other room.

Look up the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. Start with Incidental Class 1 kino such as touching her shoulder during conversation to emphasize a point.