I'm reading a lot of posts by people saying they're trying to hold eye contact with girls and even a few guys say they want to out look the girl (if this is something that is taught/encouraged I beg to differ). I just thought I should point out something I read somewhere that does work (if it was in The Game and I've not realised thats where I read it I apologise)... When making eye contact with a girl it is always best for you to look away first. This puts you in control and makes the target subconciously think she needs to gain your attention again. Think about it, when you look at a girl and you smile at each other and she looks away first, you keep looking at her hoping she'll look again don't you. It's the same the other way round. If you catch a girls eye, smile at her but look away first she thinks she could possibly not look as interesting as she would like you think she is. She will then try and change that by looking at you in the hope of you looking again to rejuvinate your interest in her.
Try it, it does work.

Although staring at a girl isnt the best idea the reason behind holding eye contact is because it shows confidence , alpha.

Hold eye contact yes, but what I am saying is be the first to look away!

hmm, i think it is very situational. You have to judge how long to hold it for each girl. And tbh, as long as u dont stare, but dont look away within the first second she looks at you i dont personally think it matters at all.

However, if its going on for 3-4 seconds it would all depends if u had started talking or not.

I think its a slippery slope too, you don't want to nervously look away obviously. I think EC is one of those things that has to be learny and well calibrated. It's hard to find concrete rules governing EC.

I think it is a balence of not making it seem that you were made uncomfortable by the EC, and therefore are not confident. But also not making her uncomfortable :S if that makes sense

No way! not nervously. What I'm saying is look for long enough, smile, wait for her to smile then be the first to look away. That way you've captured her attention. If she becomes the first to look away she can think "right there's this guy looking at me, and could quite possibly still be looking the next time I look in that direction", then she's the one in control of whether she wants to look back again or not. Where as if you are the first to look away after holding EC for long enough the roles are reversed, she will be more inclined to want your eyes to meet again.
Something that I falied to mention and maybe should have stressed this in my original post is to do this when you are talking to somebody else or looking at something i.e. an item in a shop. Everything I've said so far doesnt really relate to looking at her and just looking away into the distance. What I failed to mention was that your attention is on something else (talking, products, a news paper etc), you catch her eye now your attention is on her, you smile hold the EC for long enough, then be the first to look away back to what it is you are doing, now she is under the impression that she captured your attention because she is interesting, then the fact you are looking back at what ever it is you are doing while she returns EC makes her subconciously feel like what ever it is you are doing is more interesting then her, she then will want to fight to get your attention back on her as ultimately she wants to be more interesting then what ever it is that had the audasity to snatch your attention from her.
It's hard to explain, all I'm saying is try it. Its more of a subconcious thing than anything else. I've noticed an increase in EC from it.

Now you have explained it better, i agree with you. Smile, smile back, look away, wait a second or 2, look back, talk.

Ok a word on eye contact I usually look in a girls left eye and do trianglar gazing or just look "through" them. Also If she breaks eye contact and looks down and to the left she is attracted. When I do triangular gazing If she is attracted she will usually bite her lip in a sexual manner or smile...

Triangular gazing? Fill me in.

Yeah, look away first, always do it

- If a looks DOWN (left or right), it means she's attracted to you and she's submissive. You already have a higher value.
- If she looks you in the eyes for a longer time, she's more of an outgoing person I guess, she's not shy or whatever. She is attracted to you though!
- If she looks left or right, kinda like straight away, she's not attracted to you.

* All from personal experience.

Just hold eye contact a little longer than normal (but look her deep into her eyes). I did it once to a female friend of mine, and like she never had that feeling before! She told me she got this gut feeling inside ^^. Now she won't stop talking to me

But if you look away first, then how do you know if she is looking down(intersted) or looking left/right (not interested)??

That happens in just a fraction of second. You've actually have to test it yourself, it needs some training, but it's really funny to see their bodylanguage and eye movement.

I didn't said you have to be the one to look away first. This only matters when you are gazing into her eyes (that means she is attracted). Look into her eyes deeply for 3 or 4 seconds, then slowly look away and approach if you want!