Thank you Clancey. That is what I was loking for. Just a "well done" and "glad to hear your eyes have been opened"
I'll also be the first to admit that I have to try this stuff on new chick... the purpose of my starting this thread was to just say "Oh my F@!%!%ing god. This shit actually works"
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Take a look at how you acted with previous girlfriends when you "picked them up"....you probably NATURALLY acted in the exact manner that the PUA's act around ANY GIRL...you then probably proceeded to become a CHUMP (AFC, whatever) which diverted their attention and interest to a more confident male. IT'S A LIFESTYLE NOT A ROUTINE
Great insight alg0801! I was just thinking about one of the easiest f-closes I have ever done ... and looking back I can see that I was acting like a PUA pro without even knowing it.... it went something like this....
A HB7 I had been chasing AFC style and failing with called me to say her cousin was in town and they were just up the road hanging out and asked me to come up (social proof to the cousin). I say... "nah... i'm making a sandwich... ok... i'll be up there in 45 mins". Looking back I now see that that was a neg (my sandwich is more important than her). I go up there and chat... and I remember saying to her cousin (HB8) "you are cousins huh? I think that means you are just like her" (said in a way to make it a neg) i get interrupted with a call and have to go (neg).
Next day HB8 calls me. She'd gone into her cousins phone to steal my number. She asks to meet up at the beach. We meet. Talk. I tell her that I am good at reading palms and grab her hand to do a reading. I spin some stories about long life and lots of friends and then I say ... "and this line here... this one means that later today you are going to .... oh... ahh... nah i cant say that" and push her hand away - this is full of sexual inuendo, and looking back now I can see it is a Pull Push.
She says she is hungry. I suggest we go check out my fridge (i know it is empty). We walk to my house. Look in the fridge.... I put my arms around her from behind... and say "oh no! what are we going to do!"
We start making out... just kissing in stuff in the kitchen. I stop it and without saying a word go and sit on the bottom stairs that go up to my bedroom. She look at me for a sec and then walks over to me a sits on my lap. We make out for another minute or so. I push her offf and move up 2 steps. She looks at me and pouts. I pat the stair next to me meaning "come and join me" ... she shakes her head... I dont move... 1 min later she is on my step and we are making out ... i repeat this until we are at the top of the stairs and we roll into my bedroom... 1 rip her cloths offf.. she says
HB8 - how do you know where I have been?
ME - I dont. How do you know where i have been?
HB8 - I dont
ME - Lets use a condom
HB8 - Nod
I fuck her brains out.
This all happend 10 years ago. I was a definate AFC. This was one of my few lays at the time. Looking back it is textbook PUA. I remember this story really well... because for the next 10 years it has been the main fantasy I thought about when wanking.