hey, im pretty new to this i was spose to go out with this girl about 2 weeks ago but ditched her to chill with my friends/ made up some excuse my dad needed me, so we made plans to get together again.... whats a good place to take her im still in highschool and alot of peopple in our schools dont go on dates regularly we usually just chill in a basement at some kids house...so this is techniquelly going to be my mayb 5th one on one date with a girl.... whats some advice...i usually take girls to my climbing gym near by... but thats only during the day this is the first time im going out at nite with a girl...like i siad when im with a girl we usually just go to one of our friends house n make out in the couch in the basement lol
also im pretty sure shes intrested in me... considering we made plans to go skinny dipping

If its a nice night out, take her for a walk instead of being crammed up in the basement. Go to the friends basement if you have no other place to go, hang out for a short while and then whisper to her about it and grab her hand and lead her outside.

The rock climbing gym is a good idea, but like you said it won't work at night.

Where do you live? City? Town? Farmland?

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dude all i can say is this:

make it somewhere youd like to go. youl feel comfortable and enjoy yourself, and if she turn sout to be a stand off bitch, you can ditch her and still rnjoy yourself.
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make it somewhere colse to your house/ mates house. after a good night of being a funny interesting cunt, she might want to get freaky. make sure you can walk to somewhere near by.
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dont do everything by the book ie. wait till end of date to kiss her - PUA's are the exception to the rule!

just a couple of things ive learnt.

i live in a town im 30 mins from nyc every were in my towns pretty close nothings more than a 10 15 min drive even if its in a town near by so that shouldnt be hard

Most guys in high school take their dates to generic locations, which I am completely against - I have this thing for taking people on an adventure (who doesn't love a great adventure they can look back to?) packed with a lot of laughs. Actually one of my closest friends was having some dilemma just a day ago and was asking me where he should take a potential date, so the timing of this question is near perfect. (He suggested movies - I responded with a wtf look)

I mean in general, there are places that people don't normally go to because they are afraid to step out of their comfort zone (especially people our age who are still in high school). In any big city, interesting stores always are there. Waiting for the next curious group of people/couple to enter. It's just that no one does it. I've walked into the church of Scientology and sparked a purposely ridicuolous conversation with the man at the counter, I`ve walked into the Hemp Store and found out everything about hemp and mj my mind could think up and even the condom shack was an adventure; watching ladies discuss dildos and vibrators as if they were in a supermarket picking out fresh cabbage.

Wherever you go, get creative and don`t give a shit about who is watching, what people may be thinking or social pressure crap. Just intend to have fun with your date and hold nothing back. Whatever you are curious about, find the answer to. If there`s something you wanted to do - do it with her. A good one for malls (or public places) is to yell `...EW! (insert dates name) DID YOU JUST FART?!!` That one gets me laughing and random strangers laughing - your date will turn beet red but enjoy it haha!

Last week I took my lady to a friggin Chapters bookstore and made it the time of our lives. I pretended to be one of those sales people that never get off your ass, always asking `how may i help you`with a cheesy smile, authoratitatvely telling her not to touch the books, speaking really fast and always walking in front of her (crazy kino time!), she was running away and laughing and trying avoid me as we weaved through the aisles. We picked up some stuffed animals they sell near the entrance and starting naming them and making up conversations with em. I raced her through Starbucks. We read some weird ass books Ive never thought would have exsited too. (I said it was `story time` and made her listen like a 4 year old) People were giving us looks, but we were in our own reality and it was all fun and games.

So choose something FUN and different - make it an outing to remember! I mean we`re in highschool, we`re still young - no need to overanalyze, just go out and enjoy yourself!

If this post is long, it`s just because I haven`t said anything on these forums in months! Had to drop some words today. My bad. Much love.

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Saros is right. Find something out of the ordinary, rock climbing, hang gliding or whatever other off the wall types of ideas you can come up with. Pick something you think she might enjoy or just might not have done before. It helps if its something you know how to do and can help teach her. Then you subliminally DHV yourself. Just a few thoughts.

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Nice post Saros. Couldnt agree more.

iv just finished watchin the mystery method DVD's an hes said that dates that arnt a specail event wrok better than ones tha tare..
reason if its a mundane place location, then your spendin gtime with her and the focus is on you too an the interaction if you go paintballin then the date is about what your doin an not spendin time together,
a picnic an a walks always a good one jus hunt for a nice place to go somewhere quiet an really scenic...
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First dates at night time

It's always BEST to go for a walk

Preferably a place where there is people around

Where the environment alone will creat a good SPAM

Like I said, Starbucks is like a wonderful thing, it seems to put women in such a good mood... then you have the whole mall to walk around, go into the stores and have fun

For example:

I would walk into a store and find the most ridiculous shirt and put it over me (not on me) and go up to her and say, on our next day Im wearing this, ok?

She will laugh

Or be in purpose In the girls section and find funny things for her, tickler her, tease her, and so on

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Yeah, shopping is really good. It is easy to control conversation topics by entering different stores.
I called a girl a couple of weeks ago and told her to meet me in a mall to help me find a birthday present for my 6 year old niece (since girls know what girls want). Shopping for presents is also a good DHV. But don't show off by buying something expensive. Just be prepared by already knowing what to get and act as it came "just off the top of your head".

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I still cant think of an interesting place to take a gal...shes fairly quiet and relaxed. Thinkin a walk in a park sumwhere....but i would need a serious list of stuff to talk about...help appreciated.

yea asking her to go shopping to give ya some opinions on cloths is good.

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dress each other up... it'll be fun. maybe you're game is strong enough to help her dress in the dressing room.

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Ahh, dating places. Everyone's got their preferences but these are mine.

For a first date I usually do coffee with them, sometime in the evening. I don't know why, but people are more likely to make out at night, definately up for more. Coffee goes for as long or as short as you want, it's a public place and easy to talk. On that note avoid lunch or dinners as the date might not go as planned and you'll be forced into eachother's company. Additionally, movies are horrible dates. You don't get to talk, not really anything.

Usually after coffee, everything going well, she or you will suggest to move it someplace else. This could be your friend's basement, but isn't it a bit weird that your friends will be there too? Could break the flow you had with the girl. She could get distracted etc. Even though you are new to this you should k-close on the first date.

If you've gone for a couple of dates, go someplace where you both can have fun together, rather than sitting down and rehashing the first date again (boring). That's when your rock climbing gym comes into play.

I tried taking a girl to the mall once before. I had to text her because she said that she was in a bad area and couldn't talk. I said "my sisters birthday is coming up and I need you to help pick out a present for her" she texted "I never met your sister so I don't know what she likes". I told her that she has the same since of style as my sister and it turned out she gave me a run around saying that she lost service and so on and so forth so I gave up. I think that going from phone to date is one of the hardest parts of the game. I might try the mall thing again though.