Whats the best method? In a club its a lot easier. On the street I dont know how to open. A girl is a lot of the time on her way to somewhere or maybe in a hurry. How do I stop a girl in the street and start talking?

I'll let you in on a couple of facts which might help you out. While it is very easy to open in clubs, girls have guys approaching them in clubs all the time because most guys only feel confident enough to approach girls when they are drinking and out with their friends. Clubs are the only place the really hot girls actually get approached, and even then it's mostly by guys who don't know what they're doing and they only get together with each other because they both happen to be seriously hot for each other.

Whereas out on the street, girls just plain don't get approached. At least, not properly. It is during the day that guys will stand around in groups, point at girls they like, talk about how much they want to fuck them and generally behave like asses. They will on occasion shout across the street at a girl or ask for her number from the comfort of their group, and they get shot down every time. As long as you stand apart from this kind of guy then you're in for a nice reaction from her.

Personally I use direct styles of approach both in the daytime and at clubs. The way I see it, she either likes me or she doesn't and all I wanna do is find out which. I'm not gonna stand and do routines and think about transitioning and eliciting values and DHV stories and all that stuff because all of that is pretty much designed to make her like you if she is unsure, or to make her like you even more if she already does. Also, as you said, they just don't have time to stand and talk about all this if they're on the move. You wanna stop her and get her number so you can call her later, that's it. You'll be surprised how well this works, but I have to point out that every girl is different and because you have a very short interaction, if she doesn't like you then it's pretty much tough luck. It's better than not talking to her at all, at least this way you have the chance to find out if she is into you or not. And personally, the way I see it if she isn't attracted to me physically and the way I carry myself then I don't wanna know because otherwise I'm gonna have to work to keep her interested later on.

It's not hard to stop a girl who is walking down the street. There is a little trick I've started to use and it works really well... as you're walking towards her, keep strong eye contact and smile, she will smile back. Slow down as you get within a couple of feet and as you're about to pass each other say hi, then stop, turn over your shoulder and say "Hey, stop for a second" or "Hey wait a second, come here". Your tone of voice is important here, speak clearly but be friendly, as if you know her already and something just popped into your head which you need to tell her. And smile, motherfucker. You don't want her to think she's in trouble with you. I should also note that you don't wanna stop and change direction, just pivot your body 90 degrees to the left and talk to her over your shoulder. Hopefully that makese sense.

From there it's all up to you but I wouldn't recommend using a canned routine or what you do in clubs. During the day if she is on the move you really need to get to the point quickly because you don't want her hurrying off before you get to th point. Personally, I'm very up front and go for what I want straight away without wasting time, after all she is on the move and I don't wanna hold her back. You can focus on your DHV stuff or whatever you normally do for when you call her later.

Ok, nice, Im liking it. But thats pretty much the part I'm cool with anyway. I'm confident and I can approach girls no worries. But once I say "hey wait up a sec", then she turns to see what I have to say, thats the part I get stumped on. Would something like this do, "you've got a lovely smile, listen I gotta get somewhere but can I get your number, maybe you can show me that smile again some time" ? Something as direct as that? Any other angles I could use to obtain a number?

Cheers

Yeah, something like that. Just tell her you're on your way to something but she caught your eye and you want to get together some time, then get her number so you can call her. Pretty straightforward.

I read this and my social programming screams "IT WON'T WORK! SHE WILL BE CREEPED OUT!"

Who knows... First I really need to crush the ol' AA...

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I don't blame you for thinking this... I'm speaking from experience but I can't expect you to take my word for it. Ask a girl if she would be impressed by this kind of approach and see what she tells you. I don't mean a random girl though, I mean one you know well already... preferably one you've slept with. If you ask a random girl about this kind of thing she won't be comfortable talking about it and of course her social programming will kick in, and she'll tell you she would never hook up with someone she didn't know already. It's called anti slut defense... however, a girl you have an open relationship with has no reason to lie to you and you'll be pleasantly surprised with what she tells you. We have some female members on here so their input on this kind of approach would be appreciated.

On the topic of being direct, I remember around a year ago when I was still a hopeless AFC I went to a party with another AFC friend. A spectacular brunette 10+ and a very leggy blonde 9 approached us wanting to dance, amazingly, but us being pathetic AFCs, said we had to be somewhere else.

Later that night, at home, I figured I should have been totally direct with the hb10, and just said "well aint you the hottest thing i've seen all week... Turn around... (*she rotates*) You got some shapes on ya girl... show me how you shift em them..."
The interesting thing is, i'm sure it would have worked. I was SO shy then, yet this stunner just smiled and approached me...

I HAVE to try this on a street random...

EDIT: I went for one of my 15 mile walks today, and made it my mission to say hi to everyone. I noticed that the further from home I got, the harder it became, and if the street was crowded, it was very hard to do.
I finally opened a hb though, on the promenade at the seafront. I asked her "do fish drink?" and she said "that's a good question". However after about a minute of walking with her (i'd caught up with her after walking behind her for about 15 minutes... she was real hot from behind, but her face was nothing special) I panicked and pretended I was lost , and asked for directions to the town centre. It sucks, but I let the situation overcome me. I should have introduced myself as "Remus the trampoline inspector" or something, but the thing is IT JUST FELT TOO WEIRD

On the way home a hb9 popped out from a corner and I was like "excuse me..." But her headphones meant she never heard me... I’m still not ready for the super direct approach advocated by c_n12 and others on the forum.

Any tips for getting at a girl wearing shades? Lately all the hbs are wearing them thanks to the weather here on the UK south coast.

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