Ok, so I see a girl, I genuinely like her shoes, they're hot, I want to tell her. But before I do I try to think of a neg, my mind goes blank. What's a good fail safe? I dont want to say "I like your shoes, but you're like the 5th girl I've seen wear them" or anything like that. It happened to me last night, this barmaid was wearing the sexiest heels, she had a gorgeous little face but she was quite chubby, I still definately would have done. Anyway, the only neg I could think of was about her weight... bad move!
As I am writing this I suddenly though I should have said something like "nice shoes, don't you think they're a bit dangerous to be wearing whilst working on the bar". Something like that maybe?
But still, whats a good general neg?
thanks

You don't have to neg. Same as you don't have to do a lot of things. They're guidelines to follow, little bits and pieces you can put together as you go along. If you can't think of a neg then don't go out of your way to think of something.

Good advice. Guidelines not rules. I'll bare that in mind. Still, I like to have some ammo so Im not always complimenting

I am new to PUA but I never try to find a neg about her first off. Usually if I neg, it comes off more naturally after she says something.

Rather then looking for a physical neg, it's probably easier to just react or respond with a neg during conversation.

I also find it difficult to neg. Some girls are so gorgeos and charming they entrance me.

But if you go around socializing and paying attention to ppl, you may find how negs come naturaly. I think negs can even increase the sense of connection with ppl.

Yesterday I arrived with a party with a friend and we bumped into this guy i've met a few times. My friend knows him better than I do. When the guy saw us together he said: You hang with this guy? I'm not talking to you!

We all laughed. So what I found is that a mild neg like this actually feels good. Shows the person is confortable enough around you to kid around instead of being all formal/polite.

Thats a nice, simple one that is definately in my bag now!

Cheers!

First off. Why are you negging? Only neg when you get a bitch shield. If they are open and receptive to your game, then DO NOT FUCKING NEG!


That's the problem with fucking newbies. THey feel they must neg on every set. You only neg girls that feel their value is way above yours. TRUST ME, you will know those girls when you talk to them. Until then, keep it simple.