Never had this before would love some input.

I asked a girl out to see a play, she responded with "sure that sounds good. Where should I meet you"

THe night before she sends me a text

"Hey i'm really sorry but I wont be able to make it tomorrow my boss asked me to take a shift tomorrow so i'll be working till 9 sorry i would have told you sooner but i was away form my phone "

Its a horror play so I was thinking of responding with

"haha i knew it would be to scary for a pop princess. no problem, i will take someone else, but thats strike one for you, agent. "

never..ever..ever..ever...ever call a woman on her flake. Trust me. All you do is put negative feelings (guilt) for canceling on you. Once you do that, they will make sure NEVER to make plans with you again. Trust me, I've asked my share of girlfriends this very question about whether or not men should call out girls on flaking. DO NOT DO IT!


Just respond. "Hey, no biggie! I understand! I ended up taking a friend and the show was awesome. Maybe next time!"

I do like the too scary for pop princess comment though, so you might can through it in there.


Just respond. "Hey, no biggie! I understand! I ended up taking a friend and the show was awesome. Might have been a bit too scary for a pop princess like yourself though...lol =)"

Sounds good, thanks. I will use that tomorrow.

Just make the pop princess comment playful. So she knows it's humor and you aren't insulting her.

id reply with something a little more like " no biggie"

this conveys the message that you dont really care (even if u do), and also leaves a lot to her imagination. To be frank, chances are good that she may have made an excuse to not hang out with you, in the case you should get over her immediately and find someone more worthy of your time.

after replying, dont text her again, unless she initiates a conversation.

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Really? You think this is an excuse?

When I asked her she pretty much said: sure when and where.

We had a pretty good first date and had a strong connection. I wanted to use the pop princess to try and bring back that same connection we had, I would neg her about it.

Anyways, im done with PUA for now. Just too much on my head and I am tired of non stop failure.

she might really have to work, so it might not be an excuse, I would try asking her out again for a diff night and judge based on what she says. There is still hope.

I responded with " "Hey, no problem ! I understand! I ended up taking a friend and the show was awesome. Might have been a bit too scary for a pop princess like yourself though...lol =)"

No text back....