After sarging a HB8 I gave her my number and asked her to call me when she wanted to grab a coffee. I don’t think she’d ever been approached that way before because she looked a little surprised/confused when I gave her my number but didn’t ask for hers.

Two days later she called and we met as planned. After an hour and a half she was divulging family dramas and all that other personal stuff, so yea we were making good headway so to speak. I called it quits at that point and asked her to give me a call whenever she wanted to get together next. But added that I’d be working nightshift (which I was!) for the next four days. I gave her quick kiss on the cheek and I was off.

Again, she had that surprised/confused look on her face as she stood motionless for a good minute.


QUESTION: Was I little bit toooo laid-back in this approach? Usually I would have set the date, gone for the kiss close and set up a Day 3 but this time I thought I’d try being indifferent for a change. I’d appreciate a little feedback on this one.

Cheers.

You gotta be more of a prize. It seems like you're being a little too forward with what you think, try holding back a little and she might respond more.

You're making her put all of the effort in and giving nothing back...you did well for her to phone you the first time, if she rings again, she is definitely very into you.

I take it you have her number now she has called you?

I'd say what you are doing is spot-on. You're dhv'ing her by being unexpected in your actions and you're acting the prize aswell.

Keep it up.

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"The Game.... Is 90% Confidence, 9% Technique, and 1% Looks. You can't win unless you play it"

You are lucky this "call me" shit worked. Don't do it again. You make the move.

Heh.

I gave my number to a HB9.5 german babe who was giving me heavy IOIs a week ago (on a metro), adn then I lost my phone and never got my number back. She now can't call me

yup I've got her number now but its only been 4 days since i asked her to call back so i don't think it' would make sense to go back on my statement and start calling her up. Sounds kinda needy. I'm open to puting some efort in but im stuck till she calls back i guess.

you were confident when u gave her your number, thats what landed it for you, but be careful, shes making a emotional attachment which is good, but dont let it get to out of hand, or you'll hear the dreaded phrase lets just be friends, on the other hand if you hear that next time you hang, then turn her into a good wing! find the good in everything. but stay ethical and dot just use her

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"there are no unknockable doors, there are no unwinnable wars."

I say call her. If you want to speak to her, then why should you feel you can't call her just because of a passing comment you made? Would the alpha male just write this girl off because of some little comment he made, or would he realise it doesn't matter who calls who?

Call her and say you want to go to (insert something here) and you thought she should tag along, or something along those lines....