Last night I was at this lounge in Hollywood which is a huge celebrity hotspot on Tuesdays. The girls from the Hills were there along with Nikki Hilton and some other celebs.

Anyways, as you can imagine a hotspot like this brings some of the most gorgeous women in L.A. The ratio of girls to guys was probably 4:1.

My buddy and I totally choked last night and didn't approach anything and i'm so frustrated because I don't know why. Some nights I'm approaching sets left and right and some nights (like last night) I'm too chicken shit to do anything.

IT'S MY LIGHT SWITCH THEORY.... SOMETIMES I'M ON AND SOMETIMES I'M OFF BUT I NEVER KNOW WHEN IT'S GOING TO BE ON OR OFF.

HELP ME OUT GUYS!

You can use NLP to anchor emotions and feelings and this may help you "turn on" your game when required.

It isn't so much a 'theory' as it is you experiencing a lower self esteem on some nights more than others, you merely have to work on your inner game, realise that no matter how hot/important the girl, you are better than them, they should want to be seduced by you and it would be an honour for them to be.

- SC