yo man, don't trip on what people think about you. it's counter-intuitive, but the second you start worrying about it is the same second people are gonna start thinking bad about you.

I've only been into PU for two or so weeks, and I can already see a difference in the way people respond to me. I used to care what people thought, back when I was in high school. Then I graduated, realized I'm not gonna know half of these people when I'm older, and started becoming a people person.

The key to people liking you is to not care if they like you or not. Strive for acceptance, you get none. Don't worry about it, get all you want.

Back to this I see...

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The hottest ginger you'll ever meet.

I don't have an ego, I just love how awesome I am.

::Shrug:: I don't really know why people are still replying with advice and whatnot. This thread is a waste of effort.

See you have given up already so now you know exactly why Ive given up hope in life.

Weren't you the guy that wanted to commit suicide?

Try seeking professional help dude. We cant help you as much as you can help yourself. Change your inner thoughts to some more happier patterns by changing the input in your brain. Read happy things. Write good things down that happened to you. Search for a positive in every bad thought. And stay positive. Brain works on input and output. if you put shit in ur gonna think shit and eventually act shit. But if u start by breaking the pattern by putting things good inside good things are gonna come back to you...

damn man ur posts always hit the hundreds, i should put "screw life" on my posts maybe i'lll get advice like ur getting, my advice, again, is to give me ur credit card number and i promise i won't stab u in the back

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"Give me five minutes to talk away my face, and I'll bed the Queen of France." -Voltaire-

I must have said this about a million times now, I dont need any professional help. I just need my bad luck and the circumstances around me to change.

Dont be stupid... If you think you dont need other to help you than dont post at this forum. Some qualified people would help you more than this...

Bad luck and circumstances that will change? You are the ruler of your own fate... Bad luck is just something we all have to deal with. You can either be a whining little b-ass, just let it be and think you are a victim. Or you can change your own outcome. The circumstances is what you make of things, those things don't make you. If you believe you can change the situation just fkn start! If you act like this you just show you depend on people too much. They can only tell you the way, you have to walk the walk. So I dare you!!

People in 3rd world countries have far less uppertunities than luckers like us. So don't act like its the end of the world. Cause with the right access to knowlage you can create a reality that suits you.

This forum is for people that want to change and those people learn the overal rules of a good life. One of those biggest rules is not to be negative. So your main focus is to BE MORE POSITIVE!

For god sake, you think everything is gonna change JUST for you? Like 4 billion people in the entire world are living a more fucked up life then you ever will buddy. Go seek professional help for real. Or just leave the forum as you don't want to take advice from us.

For example; If somebody is give you a hard time and you really want to change? Punch his ass into the ground, dont be the freaking wuss.

YOU NEED SOME SERIOUS HELP.

why would you put up those applications that judge you anyways?

See, this cycle you're in? With responses like that? That's exactly why people ran away from me. And the continuation of it is why they then just plain wanted to punch me, which is now basically the urge I'm feeling. You are so blind.

There are two types of people in this world.

1) People that sit and wish good things happen to them.

2) People that go out and make good things happen for themselves.


You can shit in one hand and wish in the other and see which fills up faster. This high school bullshit pity party you got going on isn't going to cut it my friend. Nobody in this world is going to give you anything, it's up to you to earn it. You get respect and coolness by earning it. You do that by displaying traits that other people can associate and get along with.

I feel for you kid, I really do. In elementary and high school, I was that guy that was the outcast. The fat kid that everybody wanted to try and beat up. I grew big time physically and ended up playing sports. I do believe sports ultimately saved my life. I was VERY good at it, and excelled above and beyond even the clowns making fun of me. It gave me my confidence and laid the groundwork to become who I will evolve into.

I suggest you getting into some activity such as martial arts or Yoga that can give you the piece of mind and the discipline to become a better you. It'll boost your confidence level and you'll notice tons of difference on how people around you view you and associate with you. You can't change their view, you can only change yourself. With your positive changes, you'll notice their view changes too.

Nowadays, I could care less if everybody in the world is against me or hated me. As long as I'm comfortable with who I am, then all is well within me. As a human being though, I do want people to like me as I enjoy interacting with other people on all levels. (men and women) I have this motto of leaving people better than what I found them. This means any interaction with a person I have, I try to leave them (stranger or friend) feeling better for having interacted with me. Granted, you can't win them all over, but it's something I strive for.

You can get all the advice in the world, but it's not going to change this main fact. We can't change you, only you can.

Stop with the pity party and do something about it. Only you can change the path you walk in life.

No again theres no issues with me just the tools I have infront of me to do it, its not my fault Ive been riddled with bad luck time and time again, screwed out of everything Ive worked for, put so much in and got nothing to show for it, yes I have tried my hardest to change things only to get it thrown back in my face. So thats no issue with me, thats a issue with the world we live in.

Dude...

The Nice Guy Will Say:
C'mon Already.
You Gotta Want Some Change.
Try Going Out And Do Some Jogging Around The Block.
You Need To Think Better In Order For Your Life To Be Better

The Harsh World Will Say:
Don't Be A Moron!!!
Wake Up!
This Ain't No Breakfast In Bed.
Yes, We Know.. U Don't Have The Tools.
Well Look For It Then.

I'm Posting This Cuz I Want You To Succeed