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PostPosted: Wed Jun 04, 2008 5:20 am 
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I met this girl a couple weeks ago in a bar, she said she was looking for a job so I offered her one at my home business. She accepted the job and has been over to work twice.
I've tried to flirt with her at my house but she says she just wants to be friends and keep it a business relationship.
shes comin over again to work this friday. Any ideas on ways to hook up with her?


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Go back in time and dont employ her. Or at least sleep with her first!


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Infamous has got it right. If you hire a girl to work for you and she gets the feeling you only hired her cos you wanna hook up it sends off all the wrong signals. It's almost like you tried buttering her up by offering a job so that she'd reciprocate interest in you... it doesn't work that way. You'd be better off actually making friends with her and using the opportunities that arise with her friends instead.


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I say act like you never sed anything and let her see how hard you work and maybe with an HB or 2? keep the relationship stictly profesional like she asked, be a nice but FIRM boss haha, if shes worth the trouble that is


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Personally I would never recommend mixing work with pleasure, it just gets in the way of things and if people found out you slept with her then you would get accused of giving her favours.

Also remember that if you game her at work and come on too strong you could face a sexual harrassment suit.

Anyway, you messed up by offering her a job if you wanted to game her. Move on.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 04, 2008 5:31 pm 
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I met this girl a couple weeks ago in a bar, she said she was looking for a job so I offered her one at my home business. She accepted the job and has been over to work twice.
I've tried to flirt with her at my house but she says she just wants to be friends and keep it a business relationship.
shes comin over again to work this friday. Any ideas on ways to hook up with her?
Don't shit where u eat. Shes right by not wanting to get involved with her employer.


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either way if you wanted her or not...if you're "coming on" to her and she is completely aware of it you're not running your game at the right level. Come in "under the radar" as Style puts it.

Build comfort, claim you want nothing to do with her, tell her the shirt she is wearing would be perfect for the circus. A girl should feel like she's chasing you, not the other way around, even if all she is going to get from you is approval.


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