where can i find these places? and i don't have a car so i gotta travel on foot or on bus. i know there's a starbuck's down the street a bit and i'm going to try there. plus i tried barnes and nobles (because i like to read) and had no success there.

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Peace,

Love John

"The cure for one-itis, PUAs like to say, is to go out and have sex with a dozen other girls- and then see if this flower is still so special." Style

malls, movie theaters, clubs, bars, music venues, concerts, fashion shows, parks, downtown areas, bowling alleys, zoos, coffee shops, college campuses, parks, gyms, sporting events, plays.

hope this helps

-Patience

THE POOOOOOL!!! just make sure you have a nice body and some Oakleys. im gona sarge like crazy this summer at pools and im trying to get 30 posts to start a pool sarging topic. unless, is there one out there yet?

patience, that is helpful, i'll keep that in mind.

sleven, i would love to go there but i don't have a good body (for now) i'm up to about 330 pounds, im fat and i know it. but not this summer, i'll shoot for next summer... ha ha... i'm trying real hard to get in shape, that was the reason i always felt i would be doomed to die a virgin, until i found PUA!!! thank god for those that have taught the afc's like me!!!

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Peace,

Love John

"The cure for one-itis, PUAs like to say, is to go out and have sex with a dozen other girls- and then see if this flower is still so special." Style

LJ,

If u watch VH1's The Pickup Artist with mystery, there is one PUA who is really overweight, but he has a great personality. There is a challenge where all of them MUST where speedos and go out to a pool party. u would think all the other guys would have a great advantage right? esp with one being a boxer. but the "fat" guy killed it. he had all the girls hanging all over him and i think even stole a girl from one of the other guys. how did he do this? great personality and confidence and being comfortable in his own skin. i think his name was joe if u wanna try to search for him. but dude ur weight should have nothing to do with it! just work on ur game and u should be fine!

-Patience

thanks patience, that show the pickup artist is actually what got me into the pua world. i was just a big time afc, for the same reason as joe d. (and yeah i remember that episode and love it, i was so glad to see the fat one make it to like the last three) and that show really did change my perception of what it takes to be attractive.

i've read the game, by style, and i'm reading the mystery method, and they are both really helpful. but mystery says that women aren't attracted to men based on their physical features but their survival and replication value. i'm not too upset about my weight, i was just wondering how other heavier pua's were doing.

and i've got a great personality because i've come to terms with my weight and i'm working on it. i'm a fun guy, and that's how i'm gonna get the ladies.

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Peace,

Love John

"The cure for one-itis, PUAs like to say, is to go out and have sex with a dozen other girls- and then see if this flower is still so special." Style