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I'm pretty sures its more than just alpha body language and direct game. It's a frame, so a mental state not physical actions.
I don't know much about it but a lot of mPUA's are in this frame.
Where they are in complete control over their own actions and of the targets. It's hard, theres no way of achieving it except through a lot of confidence building and strong inner game. I think.
Imagine you had an exhausting day. All you want is to go to a café and have coffee. So you go to a starbucks, buy a hot coffee and warm your fingers with it. All of a sudden you see a girl sitting next to you. She is your type and sitting alone. Whereas 10 people are sitting around the two of you. You have some challenges: Get rid of the "what do others think of me"
and project a strong frame
and have good bodylanguage
and have a good opener
and be prepared for resistance
and be prepared for leading
and be prepared for investing mentally....
You will not pull that off.
But using indirect, you just start a conversation for
yourself. You talk about being tired and all of a sudden you are in a convo - without the boldness shit.