can someone educate people around here and myself about the ways sexually transmitted diseases can be transmitted and some ways to be safe

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_t ... ed_disease There you go m8

any harm in kissing?
also, should I wear condoms when get doing oral sex? and how about handjob?

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I never get head off chicks I meet in a club, you can get shit from that. If you see any acne around her mouth run away at all costs and if she makes a point that shes on the pill then chances are she has unprotected sex all the time. Wise up and always wrap up no matter how hot the chick is, usually its the hot ones walking around with STD's

Dude, I guess that the only correct answer would be the stuffy doctor's office answer: "The only way to protect yourself is to abstain." That shit's just not practical. There is a risk from kissing, don't let anyone tell you differently. Most people have micro abrasions in their mouths, causing blood to be in their saliva. Hepatitis (all types) is a bloodborne disease and, keep in mind, Hepatitis is significantly easier to acquire than HIV.

Personally, I only engage in oral sex if I know the other person and know their STD status and TRUST them. I don't use a condom for oral sex, however, I'm not advocating that anyone else do that, it may not be the safest option. As far as a HJ, personally, I don't see a need for condom use, unless she has a transmittable skin disease or you have something that you don't want to get on her.

Bottom line: your health should be your #1 priority, if it crosses your mind to wear a condom, just put one on so you feel comfortable.


Untrue. There are many women who do not have regular menstrual cycles that take a BCP. Some women have such messed up menstrual cycles that they may have 2 periods a months, or sometimes only a few periods a year, at very sporadic intervals. "The pill" forces their body to have a monthly menstrual period, thus keeping their bodies in homeostasis.

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Hand jobs with a condom would suck. You might as well do it yourself.

If a girl has a cold sore do not kiss her or recieve oral. That is herpes.

Wrap it up if you are going to have sex with the girl. HPV (genital warts)the clap and chlamidya are STD's that often times goes undetected. You cannot just look at a womans va-jay-jay and tell if she has one. If she says "Hey its cool, I am on the pill." Your response should be, "Well I understand we are both clean, I just want what is in the best intrest for both of us." Or some other bullshit like that. Weather or not you follow through is your perogitive.

I wouldnt go down on a woman I just met. Not gonna happen. If you feel the need to go down on a woman you are casually seeing, use a dental dam, or cling wrap. Its not pretty, but if she really wants some oral, than that is your safest way. Tell her its this way or nothing at all...

My buddy got the clap one time from some random bitch he nailed. He said it was like pissing razor blades and could barely walk. He waited 3 days to go to the doctor cause he is a dumbass. All it took was a little peniciline shot and he was fine.

Best bet, just wrap it up.

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I might have over-reacted a little on that one however I still think its an excuse for some of the girls I know.

Still on the issue some of the durex condoms are quite good and retain some of the sensation

Hmm , at last somebody pickup the real issue . Sex is not wrong but diseases ahhh shit man .I have readsome book "named sexually transmitted diseases " ( I am not sure about the title ).I recommend u to read it . The best tip I can give is always wear Condom . THREE CHEERS FOR CONDOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I've gotta get checked out my ex from last year was a slag who was fucking loads of guys behind my back. I always wear a condom these days, tho it's better without.

so im ready to start doing stuff with my gf like more sexual than just kissing. how do i know if shes clean, and even if im clean myself? if it helps we are both virgins.

also i know this extremely lame but i was never very well educated on this but if two people have intercourse and the male doesnt cum inside her pussy then does that mean theres no chance of having babies? like are condoms main objective to stop the cum from getting inside her?

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anyone??

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Nah. When you fuck a girl, theres sperm coming constantly from your penis.

Basically, it means that you either use condom or she uses e-pills.

The only way to know that shes clean for sure is to get you two tested, but I'd assume that since you are both virgins and your parents don't have AIDS or anything related (I hope ), its cool.

so condom when i fuck the shit out of her
and i shouldnt worry too much about std while shes giving me a bj as we are both virgins and most likely clean

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Didn't they teach you any of this shit in school? Wrap it before you tap it! More to greatly reduce the risk of getting her pregnant. Just make sure you know how to put one on beforehand. Ever seen The 40-Year Old Virgin?

If you're both virgins and neither is lying about it, then the only possible way you wouldn't be clean is if you got something hereditary.

or she could have given someone an bj and could have gotten something through that

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