In short this girl and I were going to study after class and I was going to ask her out, the problem is she didn't even show up to class. I don't know what happened but I'll probably find out sooner then later tonight, since wednesday is the test and I'm the only person she knows in that class. The problem is I can't do anything after class on Wednesday cause I have to go somewhere immediately after the test.

Any suggestions, to try to play it into making her meet me Tuesday or Wednesday afternoon?

I think I saw this on Youtube...but it even worked for me on a Hooter's girl [even though I froze up and never called her]

take out your phone.
you: what's your name again? [good neg as well]
her: Blah, blah.
you: and your number...

since they've given their name I think it makes them think they've also already agreed to give their number. I mean it works really well.

first thing is dont freak out. just cuz she wasnt in class today doesnt mean u cant go through with what you planned out. stay calm and just see her tomorrow. just cuz she didnt show up doesnt mean she blew you off, it just means that maybe something came up in her schedule. if this test is a final exam and u wont see her again then maybe u need to act sooner then later. but if its just a midterm relax you will still see her and be able to study with her later on. just feel it out but dont seem to pushy to study.

I don't have her phone number.

Ok, no the course is all summer, the problem is if I wait too long i'll be stuck in the LJBF zone and it's hard to get out of it. Also a good amount of people start skipping class so if I she starts skipping class it gets pretty hard. So what should I say tonight, should I wait till she messages me or I message her?

wait til she messages u, trust me as long as u kinda play hard to get and stay away from doing everything she asks u wont be placed in the LJBZ, you need to start flirting a little more during class.

if u want her number maybe u should go about it this way.

No.1Stunna: Hey, lets get together and study this week? (remember u are an alpha male, YOU tell them WHEN AND WHERE! u dont ask)
HB: yea, blah blah blah i want you blah blah blah lol
No.1Stunna: Ok, whats ur number, ill give u a call.

that should work for the number. but i still say u focus on that date. try arranging a study session then still ask her out. if u cant get the study session and still get her number then u can call her up and be like "so i decided im taking you out on a date this (insert day and time here) so let me know where to pick u up"

K, I don't know about talking during class, like I rarely talk in class because well if the girl's there for academics right, and the room is pretty small so the professor can easily hear me.

try to get there early. one thing u can also do to flirt a little bit is write her a note during class. sit next to her and write this.

"so when was the last time u got a note like this during class" it will seem kinda boyish so she will think its cute. even from here while yall are writing notes back and forth during class do the exact same thing i said. write out that u are gonna get together and study and when she responds be like ok whats your number? and its as simple as that.

lol ok I'm remaining calm but I don't think she's going to message me, she might but I don't know cause she's on right now. Should I add her on facebook randomly or wait?

NO NO NO lol, dont add her there will be a time and place for that. if she doesnt message u its cool. u need to find some stuff to distract u or get on myspace and work on negs and stuff. thats what i like to do when there is nothing else. gaming online can help u alot.

i know it feelsl ike u need to be doing stuff in order to get this girl, and that everything im telling u is against everything u have ever heard. but u have to take your time. the hours and days waiting will definitely pay off. u wanna make urself better for her, go work out, go read a book to become more cultured. go learn to play an instrument, or do something that makes u happy. it wil make the time pass by so much quicker.

I'm talking to her, but like I don't want to seem to try hard, thought cause i don't want to bring up you want to study again.

how long have yall been talking tonight and who initiated it first? u may wanna to jokingly neg her and stuff, dont bring back studying up. and at one point u should be like. alright ill be right back i have to go (insert hobby here for little bit) and put up an away message. then after like half an hour come back and take off the away and see if she messages u back.

I initiated it, but I brought up like what she was listening to.

"Ok I'm willing to give it a shot, and see if I can actually work tonight, but I'm out but lets get together and study tomorrow, cause I'm pretty sure the professor is going to tell me to fuck off if I asked him a last minute question"

She said hahaha, you are too hilarious

and then she went offline. What should I do? Should I go to school anyway hoping that she's going to be at the Lab where we do work or don't bother.

i think u are starting to look into this too much. and yes go to school lol. u need to go to school for school not for the girl! the girl is just a plus lol

This mans 100% right.

Find a new obsession temporary to fill up your current obsession with this girl. Trust me