ok so i like the girl we knew each other for about 3 years... she liked me on and off during the first 2 we knew each other... now this year i dont think she does.. cuz i call and she just never calls back but she says hey to me when we see each each other... idk what to do haha

Did you like her in the first 2 years? If so why didn't you do something about it? Are you just after advice on how to pick this girl up or how to get her back?

- SC

yea, like at first i didnt like her cuz she was new, then after i was like WTF but then after she started likeing me again.. but she had a BF also.. so i just wanna know ways for her to like me again cuz ive been doing routines on her but i dont think its working? like i used jeffys " wheeping air supply call back techique lol..

that be sweet if anybody could give me some pointers...

You have what we call oneitis. If you've known her this long and never made a move on her then it's gonna be damn near impossible to change things... the only thing you can do in that situation is be up front and honest about what you want; it'll either get you what you want or drive her away. You have no choice in what happens here, it's pretty much hit and hope.

You need to ask yourself what's worse... losing her as a friend and having to move on or having to spend the next years of your life being friendly towards her and keeping your feelings bottled up the whole time for fear of losing her. I know which one I'd choose.

yea bro, should i just be like i like you in the middle of a conversation?
like i asked her to chill and she goes "ill see what i can do" and dosnt answer... i called her today but she didnt call back she just IMed me..
idk if you guys agree with this but i called her using a home phone nothing but i called her using one of my freinds and she picked up.. but the kids phone i used to call has a GF.. so would they be nurvouse calling house phone cuz its not direct or something?

No, you should tell her you want to talk to her about something and tell her... to bring it up right in the middle of a conversation would be more uncomfortable than necessary. To be honest, by the sound of things at the minute she's trying to avoid contact with you so you'd be better off just not paying attention to her anymore. Just find a new girl, it's not that hard.

so like if she says hey just kinda walk by? cuz i did that befour and she gets mad when i do she goes "why do you hate me" lol...

You're chacing her instead of allowing her to chace YOU. Stop calling and being needy...that's what AFC do. You're a PUA!

When she say's, "hey." when passing by

Reply with, "I'm going to...today (or whenever) If you're in the mood for....call me.

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thanjs guys.. could their be anything else i could do to try and get her back to me? or just for get it totaly

ok so i was in class today and the girl walks by and says " hey cory" but i didnt answer.. im trying to get her out of friends mode or just stop likeing her cuz i have onitits with her soo was ignoring her the right thing to do?

what you should do is become friends with her. a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship is already blown, but its nice to have a girls point of view on certain topics. i have a friend thats a girl (not only one but for this example) and I can be so open with her about routines and all kinds of stuff so its very beneficial for me. idk if you could do something like that but its either that or nothing at all

any good ways i can get ride of my onitits with her...? cuz i wanna get ride of it.. it just sucks becuase at one time i could of had her anybody know what i mean?

You need to get out of the scarcity mentality. Chief is a great guy to talk to about this...hopefully he might swing by here and post his opinion.