Turn it around. You are awesome. You are the daddy, and you will be a pua.
Positive thoughs will make you confident, if you believe in yourself, it will slowly make others believe in you two.

BULLSHIT
it's never out of your hands [btw... don't expect everyone to like you... and those facebook applications suck.. don't add them, they're pointless especially when only 10 of your friends use them]

anyways... like i was saying "it" is never out of your hands.. NEVER.
Seriously dude, never let anyone tell you that you're not worth it.. you are... i don't even know you, and i'm telling you that you are so get up, smile
and realize that if someone needs to hide behind and anonymous survey system to insult you that their opinion is worthless

AND... one more thing... every PUA knows that inner game is waaaaay more important than looks
let's face it, most of us think [at least i do] that Mystery looks like a total goofball, but it doesnt matter!!

What is it you cannot get over? It sounds like there is something in your life that you just can't let go.

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success is my only mother fucking option, failure is not.

but everything you say fits the description of a whiner/complainer. It seems you are in self-denial.
You talk about "bad luck" (and you even capitalize it)... I don't even believe in luck (and i've never met a woman who believed in luck either), so that just sounds ridiculous. And then you say the bad luck has nothing to do with you, then why does it even affect your goals?
You make your own destiny. And guess what; I'm a gambling addict (I trade stocks/options). When I lose money, I don't blame the market. I blame myself for not making a good decision. Good fortune rarely falls in our laps. If it did, we wouldn't appreciate it. Good things fall near us, and we just need to recognize it in order to reach for it.
Like Neil Strauss said, "The universe has it's own cat-string theory."

So quit acting like the people around you are any better off. If they are, the reason is because they worked for it. If you work towards happiness, you'll be blessed with those "chances and opportunities" that you speak of. Nothing is free in this world-- not even happiness.

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"I use to believe when a girl said she love me, but now I take off, don't look back and keep runnin. A hundred MPH Im hidin my smile but now I find time just for writin it down" -Equipto

"Life's not a bitch, Life is a beautiful woman" -Aesop Rock

Sir, I would bet all the blood in my veins that you could not POSSIBLY be more wrong. Some others in the thread have stated it more harshly than probably needed, but flat out--you're wrong. If the problem didn't like with you, you'd feel better about yourself and people would want to be around you. Nobody runs screaming from utter perfection. What kind of sense would that make? No, this sounds to me like the self-talk of someone who's afraid to change, isn't willing, or just plain isn't ready.

Believe me its dead on true.
To put it this way there are younger members of my family, while I was younger and trying and failing to attract women and with everything in my life going wrong, they were just junior school kids.
All these years later, they are grown up, Im still struggling to survive while things have fallen into place for them despite showing the same if not less effort than me.
Life has given me no reason to carry on, I wonder why I have bothered to fight the odds for so long only to be kicked in the teeth time and time again.

Everyone is doing their best to help.

Maybe post some pictures of yourself, so we can tear you down and you can build yourself back up. You havent given us much to go by. Just that life sucks for you. Well life is all in what YOU make of it. You cannot compare yourself to anyone else. Only yourself. It is a losing battle to try to sit and compare other peoples lives to yours.

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success is my only mother fucking option, failure is not.

I know everyone here have tried and are trying their best.

But now Im starting to realise maybe its a outside influence, someone out there has it in for me and doesnt want me to succeed.
Its not about effort,talent spirit and ability because I have all of that maybe nothing is ever meant to go right for me, Im not cut out to live in t his world, im a man in the wrong body trapped in the wrong circumstances.

DUDE, WHAT THE FUCK IS YOUR PROBLEM?!?!

I'm visiting my parents and out of boredom I decided to answer 1 lucky newbie's question... And here you are again, number 13, exactly where you were 2 months ago.

You are a typical whiner my friend. The fact that you claim to have tried out Thundercat's tips doesn't prove that life/karma/god is against you (it isn't... in all fairness, it doesn't care about you). A good friend of mine had a similar attitude a while back. He put some half-assed effort into studying, just to be able to say that he tried oh-so-hard but he's just biologically not designed to pass his Baccalaureate. Two years later he's now at a respectable university and admits that he was only putting in enough effort to be able to blame some external force. He just plain wasn't motivated enough to succeed because at the time, his life without academic success wasn't that bad - he was lazing about in the time he should have been studying and got a lot of sympathy from his mother and even the teachers.

My point: You're posting all this for sympathy, which you are getting from some members of this forum. But where are your actual QUESTIONS?

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Love,

Ace

don't put yourself down. obviously your so called 'friends' already do that for you. you gotta be your biggest fan and you gotta be your own best friend. we can only love others after we begin to love ourselves... i know it sounds corny as hell but it's true, don't expect anyone to fix all your problems.

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Peace,

Love John

"The cure for one-itis, PUAs like to say, is to go out and have sex with a dozen other girls- and then see if this flower is still so special." Style

In an attempt to do something useful with my time, I stumbled upon this description of 'fear of success' - no, I didn't research it for you, don't flatter yourself.

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Love,

Ace

I understand those 3 points you pointed out but they dont apply to me, those 3 points are for people who

1-Have Brought their own Unhappiness and Failures on themselves

2-Enjoy their own Happiness and Failures

3-Love other People to feel Pity on Them and Sweep up their Mess

All 3 of those dont apply to me

Then what does? Nothing anyone has wrote has helped you. What is going to help you? You have given us basically a suicide note and nothing else. Its not like any of us are going to bump into you on the street. If you want some real help here, you are going to have to open up a bit more.

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success is my only mother fucking option, failure is not.

I will be brutally honest with you. You are number 1. You are completely unaware of any form of potential you may have, and if you are aware of it, you're too lazy to do anything with it. No, don't make excuses that you have tried but the entire world conspired against you. They're called 'problems' and everyone has them. Either be specific and tell us what you tried to do and what exactly stopped you or quit bitching.

Which brings me to my next point: all you do is bitch and moan, which is not what successful people do. Since there's nothing special about you, if you stop complaining and acutally do something with your life, you'll spend a lot of time being average (before you become great, but you'll need an attitude makeover for that) and you can't accept that. You enjoy the pity and the attention, even on this forum. If your life (or game) improves you'll be an average joe (or a rAFC) and you won't stand out from the crowd.

I'll say to you again what I said a month ago: there's two ways forward.

1. Tell us specifically what you want to change, what have you done to achieve this goal so far and what's been holding you back.

2. Quit your bitching and accept that you are responsible for the way you handle the situations life throws at you.

I have a feeling you'll go with option 3 though: continue bitching and never give specific information. Because I bet your life isn't actually that terrible and you're not that physically deformed. You're a perfectly average kid with a fucked up mental attitude, but there's nothing special about that whatsoever.

I'm done here, speak to you in another month.

P.S. the words in bold in your quote are a 'tautology' - avoid those.

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Love,

Ace

Ok dude heres the thing i can relate to you in a way. all my life i havent had the most friends. just the ussual 2-3 best friends. all my friends and i never had girlfriends growing up, barely even talked to girls, and and i never really new what was wrong with me or themselves. in fact i acctually think that im a good looking guy, and have been told so but iv still only ended up kissing one girl in my life (i was 13) and got a handjob from some HB6 when i was on vacation. however, i am anly 19 but still it sucks. my fucking cousin isnt nearly as good looking as i am, and he gets girls like its nothing. and hes only one year older than me. AAAHHH!!!. they crawl to him ang he can go on an f-close rampage whenever he wants. so what im trying to say is that it doesnt matter how you look or whatever, but its what you do with yourself. My cousin always went out, he got ass. i satyed in, i played with my dick. thats how it works. so just work your confidince up and dont give a flying fuck about anyone. Just remember, Mystery was a Virgin until he was in his mid twenties and now look at him!!