| I think the best way is to tell a story...
here are my rules for telling a story, the do's and dont's
don't
1. brag
I have a bmw, I kicked this fucker's ass, I pulled out a roll of
hundreds, I said 'fuck you' to his face, I kicked his ass...etc
2. be logical
it didn't make sense for me to go over there, i knew the best course
of action was to wait, etc
3. seek approval
You agree with me, right?, you would do the same thing, right?, that's
not that bad, is it?, you think that's okay, right?
do
1. make yourself look foolish
I couldn't get the dog off my leg and then I slipped in the sh*t and fell
on my ass..., she threw the drink in my face.., there i was with lipstick
on and 30 people staring at me.., etc.
2. maintain ALPHA posture and eye contact
chin up, shoulders back, facing slightly away (unless you're giving an
IOI as a reward), large hand gestures, SMILE
3. Laugh
4. Acknowledge people's participation in your story
you: crazy, huh? (remember to say this like she has already agreed)
her: the same thing happened to me!
you: Cause you're as fun as me! hahahahaha
5. Never answer to a neg during a story - trample it or neg them back
The more silly you look the more powerful you will appear if you can maintain ALPHA status. They will understand that you are making yourself look foolish to help the story and also to help them relate to someone like you who is ALPHA perfect.
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