Alright guys, decided to end the barrage of questions and post some tips. Your in a club, you talk to a chick, attract her and get her number. Now what?
I've decided to write a post on the after-math of pick-up since there is so much material on the process of picking up chicks.
First and foremost, if you have aquired a females phone number or email you must follow the
3-day rule. This rule is pretty basic, it means - No contact with the target until 3 days after you recieve her number or email. There are many reasons for this. You call her right away you look like a desperate tool. If you wait a while she the anticipation will build, which is what you want. In the Rules of Attraction, one of the fundamentles is that the male must look as uninterested in the target as possible. Phoning girls is tough because it's hard to look like the object of desire when you are making the move, however it is neccessary for the male to do this. So, to counter this problem, there is a clever trick you can use.
Messaging. 9 times out of 10 the chick will hand you her cell phone number. Do not call her after 3 days but instead message her. Send her a message like "hey babe, It's Solkanar from the bar. Anyways I just remembered how much you need dance lessons from moi, so give me a call if your up for the challenge." The message can say anything aslong as it says for her to call you. What has happened is you have taken an initiative, it is her turn to respond back. You havn't called her so you are still suave and cool.
If she calls you, tease her a bit, "WOW! Im shocked you actually had the courage to call me, very impressive." Remember to NEVER tell her or demonstrate to her how much you enjoy her company, it is unneccesary to say AFC shite like "well anyways, I really enjoyed your company the other night so I thought that maybe it would be possibe to bla bla bla im a tool". When you talk to her be casual, tease her, joke around. Arrange a meeting like you are arranging a meeting with your bro Dave. Rule of Attraction - BE TOTALLY UNPHASED BY ANYTHING, be unphased about the date or any defenses she might come up with "wellll, I dunno, I just met you and...." just respond with a "ok, 1:00 then?"
The Meeting - Alright, you must make or date at a certain point. I advise against anything awkward where either recipiant feels they must entertain.
Solkanar's List of Usless AFC LJBF Dates
1) The Dinner - SO awkward. It's hard to interact because all you do is talk, and topic conversations must be started out of the blue. Usually they range from your favorite hobbys to what you do as a job, BORING
2) The Movies - No interaction whatsoever, just look at the screen, she could do this by herself in her room, why does she need you? Right, she dosn't, and that is exactly the impression you'll give
3) Lunch Date - This is one-way ticket to LJBF highway, going on a lunch will usually put you faster in the Friends Zone then a fly on shit.
Solkanar's List of Good Memorable Dates
1) Shopping - The best idea I've ever come up with, usually ends in sex guaranteed. This is what you have to do. The next time you need new clothes, savour this situation for dating oppurtunities. Tell the girl to meet you at a park bench or something. Then go up to her and be like "k, lets go." She'll be like "huh?". Then tell her that you need to shop for some clothes and she's going to help you. Not only will she find clothes that look really good on you, but she will have the time of her life and be VERY attracted to you.
2) Concerts - ANY concert is good, dosn't matter if she dosn't like the music, dosn't matter if the band isn't big. It can be at a Jazz Bar, whatever, this is a very good interactive date. You will be able to dance with her and tease her about many things.
3) Dance Lessons - Take her to Salsa lessons followed up by a night at a Salsa Club. Trust me, as the night goes on, she'll be getting wet.
4) Paintball or Laser Tag - Sounds like it would be a horrible idea, but trust me, it isn't. Alot of kino opportunities. She has this game down pact, she's played it ever since the 8th grade. Even if this chick is the female world champion of paintball, all she will do is cower behind a wall or tree. This is when you can play with her, try pushing her out into the open, lead a charge with her, this stuff is a change of pace for chicks and lots of fun.
5) A Fair - These are classic and not that secretive, but taking chicks to fairs is really good. All the games like tossing balls and darts are great because you can make fun of how bad she is at it. If you win, you can always pull a classic PUA qualifying trick, don't get her the big teddy bear but get her the plastic dracula or skeleton, something really nasty. She'll laugh her ass off.
6) Extreme - Depending on how much money you have and the kind of girl she is, take her on some crazy adventure she'll never forget. Take her sky diving or bunjee jumping. This kinda stuff creates a strong bond and really triggers the oxytocine levels in her body, meaning she'll indefinately want sex afterwards.
7) Waterpark - Again, another classic interaction kino place. Not only are the both of you stripped down, but you touch each other and are in water. When you go down the slide together, it's just a teaser for that rush that men and women experiance in bed...priceless.
The Zoo - This may not be as affective if she is an animal rights extremo, but you should detect this, if you don't, work on your peceptual skills. Zoo's are great cause all women love animals. Again, many teasing oppurtunities. "ohhhhhh he's so cute" ; "I can take him, wanna place bets?"
9) Anything Boat Related - If you have a boat, a yacht, well....you shouldn't even have to read this. But gentlemen, there is something about boats and women. Paddle boats, Kayakes, Cruiseships, it's all just so perfect.
10) Minigolf - Again, another interaction where there are plenty of oppurtunities to make fun of her.
Once your on one of these dates it is vital that you remain cool. Do not blow it by opening up to her, telling her your plans for the future. Just have fun, act cool, tease her, play with her. Stay away from any AFC comments, don't be her baby brother! "Great Shot! Wow, you're really good at this!" IS SO MUCH WORSE THE "Got lucky there pumpkin, 10 bucks says you can't do it again." Alright, those are my tips for that clinical moment, the date.
-Solkanar[/b]
CHAT
especially the waterpark idea.
