Ok so here it is. I own a Verizon Wireless store downtown Milwaukee in a heavily populated area of young professionals, aka young hot business women. This one girl always walks by and some times smiles and sometimes not. i want to ask her out, i just don't want it to be weird if she rejects. what to do

Im new to this forum but im might be able to help you out. So the first question would be is whether or not you guys have ever spoken to one another. if so, then i suggest talking to her again and this time, act as if you dont give a shit about her. because if you come up to her and say "Hey your hot, lets go out" she'll probably say no thanks. but if you talk to her, get to know her then your good. one thing to remember is to neg her occationally in the conversation. say something like "is your hair real" and when she acts shocked just say, "cause if it is, its very beautiful. this is like neg then a compliment. i also reccomend picking up the book "The Game" which is written by Neil Strauss. its very helpful and youll learn alot . oh and as far as the asking out part goes, just say " id like to continue this converation some other time. whats the best way for me to reach you? and if you can, set up a time of 2nd meeting on the spot. that almost guarentees the second date. good luck.

Unless she comes in to the store then you are going to have to apprach a moving target, which can be difficult at times, make sure you don't approach head on as this comes across in a very intimidating way.

As metioned above, give her a neg or two after you have used an opener, though if you do don't necessarily follow the above guidelines...a neg is a backhanded compliment in a way, it should get a positive response and should not require you to back it up with something like "you are beautiful".

Something like "did you know your ears move when you smile?" will do just fine. Obviously you would build on this a little.

Well I have never talked to her, we have just been playing the looking and smiling game for about 2 weeks or so.

The problem you've got is that this has gone on too long. If she keeps going by and exchanging smiles much longer she'll think:

* He's not interested
* He has a GF
* He's gay
* He's indecisive

Before you know it, SHE will lose interest and you'll kick yourself. You've got ONE shot at this, remember. One way to break this is if she has established a pattern - if she sees you through one particular window each time then move places and see if she looks around for you. You could always wait outside at the time she walks by - this is a bold move and you've got to be confident in your ability to come out with a memorable line or she might back off. Using a neg at this stage isn't a good idea - maybe later but a moving target on the way to work (I assume) has got to be hit fast and memorably and left thinking about what you said and wanting more. If you insist on neg'ing straight away then perhaps you could wave at her, then if she waves back you could look confused and point to somebody across the street and shrug - make her think you were waving at somebody else. Obviously doesn't work if it's a quiet street and there's no crowd on the other side! Saying something like "Isn't this a pane?" while maybe referring to the glass, maybe referring to it in its role as a barrier between her and you, may leave her thinking that's funny or cheesy - depends on you, her and the delivery. Just go for it!