alright, theres an HB8 ive been chatting up for a few weeks. nothing has happened yet but she definitely wants it. shes always inviting me places, kinoing me, eye contact, laughing at everything i say.etc...

anyway, i was hanging out with a buddy of mine last night and he told me that this girl said this to another dude,
"i dont think i should have sex with stereomuse tonight."
now, in most situations i would take this as a definite IOI and a very good sign. but the dude she said it too is very attractive and good with the ladies. and they had been flirting the night she said this. (i was there too, and she was definately flirting with me a lot more)
so, should i take this news in the ay that she was thinking about having sex with me? or should i take it in the wlight of her trying to dispell the fact that shed been flirting with me more to him, make him jealous, etc...

Maybe hes lieing..

But note he did say that she said..I shouldnt have sex with him "TONIGHT"

that doesnt mean she wont F you at a latter date.

She may just not want to come across as a slut, sure there has been a lot of flirting and IOIs but just because someone has written about it doesn't make it the golden rule each time, this girl may just need a little more work, or may need to feel closer to a guy - a couple of dates here and there, before she sleeps with him.

- SC

it doesn't so much concern me about what she said. it concerns me who she said it to

I don't know. If a girl was telling me about guys she did or didn't want to have sex with. I would take this as me being stuck in the LJBF zone. So maybe this guy isn't such a threat.

yeah thats what i would normally think. it was just a little off putting because i remember that same day there was a fair bit of kino going on between them.

If there is kino it doesn't really matter when the guy is in the LJBF zone, it is like kino with a girl and her gay friend.

- SC

Lol, you don't need to worry. She wouldn't say that to guy she'd consider as a partner.

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your probably right. i was only a little concerned (not much though) because the dude gets with a lot of girls, and he and her had only met a few times.

If i was you i'd keep in contact with this girl like you have been dont be put off at all by this other guy and keep up your game cause if she is saying she shouldnt tonight she has obviously been thinking about it, which is a sure sign that she probably will in the future..

Just keep at it and Goodluck mate
-Pulse

who cares why she said it.

Boom!

Seriously, you're trying to analyze something that doesn't need it.

Who cares what she says? Just deal with the phases and respond to the IOI's. geeze, silly! hahahaha