Are you calling them out on shit that they try to pull on you or just shit that they do or say where you don't really need to?
I used to have an issue with calling people out on their shit because when I was told to call them out I would just do it every chance I got.
Your goal should be not to call her out on the stupid things she says or does necessarily but when she is trying to manipulate or fuck with you and try to beta you; call her out when you are defending and standing up for yourself, not just because she does or says something stupid.
What you are trying to do is be unnatural; not confident. You are not creating an image of yourself as confident, you are creating an image that is not the real you.
- Chris
