Like I've Picked This girl Up About A Week Ago And For real I was Actually Diggin her But Now She is Spillin her Guts out To me And I dunno How to Handle this. she's anorexic yet she is studying nutrition and personal fitness so she is well aware of the consequences, but she thinks it is normal. like she has the perfect body and she know she has the perfect body to society but not what she wants. and this girl is well educated and she says it's b/c she has biological depression plus she hates how so many guys check her out since she developed at a young age. and i gave her as much positive affirmation as i can, but she isn't budging from her mindset. and i figured all you all are good with ppl and sellin your ideas and convincing ppl or you've met alot of ppl or can relate to the situation. so what should i do.
and i do apologize i've made two bulletins about helpin other ppl that isn't necessarily PUA related. but everyone in this world deserves a helping hand.

It's like an alcoholic or drug addict man - until they're willing to change and accept whatever advice or help others give them there is nothing you can do. One of the first rules of attraction is don't try to play therapist to a woman; if you feel a certain way toward her regarding this you need to let her know.

- Chris

i say avoid anorexics... ive dealt with girls like that before. not worth dealing with the psychological issues

or you could be a human being and help them out / get them some help...
apathy is rarely the answer to anything

my advice would to be selfless at the moment... put aside your intention of dating/doing watever for the moment and allow yourself to just help-- if she needs someone to talk to... if she needs an intervention.. if she wants help telling her family/friends and getting help...

watever you do, DO NOT neg the girl at all.. people with anorexia have very low self esteem!

I would actually be very forward with the girl-- tell her that you're attracted to her/ care for her, but that you cannot bear to see her destroying herself.. tell her that she is amazing the way she is, and that she shouldn't have to change for anyone.. tell her that you want her to be happy and that you want her to be comfortable in her own skin...

good luck!

delta

One or both of you are retarded. How is being anorexic a normal nutritional habit (assuming she is actually anorexic)?


You sure she's anorexic? Anorexic chicks typically look pretty gnarly.
Well educated yet stupid, eh? Yeah, that is a tricky mix.


So is she on medication? I fail to see how this justifies her anorexica.


So that's why she starves herself? She should try being fat--that would change that pretty damn fast.


Besides, why do you want to get with an anorexic? They're all sharp, bony edges--you're liable to catch an elbow to the eye when she's in the throes of passion.

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wtf nigga she don't look boney, she is actually gorgeous. just a nutcase, we actually ended everything today. and i'm not a retard your comment that implied that was kinda uncalled for.

I agree.

If she's not bony then she's not anorexic or hasn't been so for very long.

I didn't say you were retarded. The implication was contingent on certain factors. Anywho, I was being jocular for most of that post.

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Lo' there do I see My Father.
Lo' there do I see the line of My People, back to the beginning.
Lo' they do call to me, they bid me take my place among them.
in the Halls of Valhalla, where the brave may live forever.