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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 9:02 am 
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Hey Aussie Bloke! Your email resonated with my own personal experiences. Its great that your getting back into the fight asap but remember that to really piss your ex off, other than a trail of beautiful women and dramatically improving game, make sure to work on all facets of your life (finance, interests etc) As the sith lords say "use your anger!". Ladies men impress men, not women. You being successful in life and having hot girlfriends will piss her off rather than an infinity of one-night stands. Ps - post break-up take it easy on the masturbation if you havent already done so as it will give you an edge and accelarate your progress.


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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 1:00 pm 
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Hey Roland,

A lot of good advice already in there from the other lads! Luckily for you your one of the elite who are sincerly working on your game so your recovery should be accelerated. One must select the appropriate advice to use on a case by case basis. In your case, I would strongly suspect that your best bet would be to cut her completely out of your life. It sounds harsh and while in principle, remaining friends is a noble ideal, in my own bitter experience, women are masters of winning the post-break up game and you need peace and time to recover while gently working on your game and looking for little gains. Personally, after a three and a half year relationship I went down the friends route and just couldnt hack it when her serious boyfriends started to trickle in further down the line because at the time i was an AFC times ten! So, for your own sake, after a two year relationship, minimise contact with her. Be pleasant, brief and civil if she contacts you but dont pursue anything with her. Good hunting! :wink:
Like you're saying, there's been some good advice here. About cutting her out of my life, I've already kind of done so. It's been a half year now, and at first I was really AFC, calling her and doing all the stupid things AFC's do. Then I read the Game and became interested in the community. She had already been fooling around with guys, and that was when I decided to cut her out. I blocked her on msn and never contacted her for a couple of months.
However, in the last two months I ran into her a couple of times while going out, and we had some great fun. I unblocked her and every now and then we had some fluff talk. We even talked about going out some time, to play some pool. I know this isn't really the best idea, but deep down I still kind of hope I get her back.
Now I'm thinking about it, I should actually cut her out again for my own good, but then again, it kind of has two sides to it. It's a pickle.
But in the meantime I'm working on my game and I'm going out again this weekend.

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sorry to hear man, I had a misses for 3years she left me for another guy... so now I wanna be a good PUA!!! she will get extremly pissed off if she sees me out and about picking up girls haha, I dont even talk to her anymore I deleted her msn, gotta move on!! Get bitches!!
That sucks man, I hope you succeed in pissing her off ;)


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Hey Roland. Yeah thats a bit complicated. Just let her do all the contact initiating, be civil and pleasant and stay away from touchy subjects (like who shes dating etc) If she asks you to come out, and if you feel ready and it wont cause an emotional meltdown (because she may pull some stunts!! Believe me if you still like her, she'll probe and bring it to the surface. To have the higher ground you must care less than she). Anyway if you go out, keep it simple and have strength and courage. Dont give too much away. But after two years she probably has some feelings for you locked in there. You'll need a fusion of your new game and what attracted her to you in the past. A sort of hybrid game! : new stud skills plus the you she fell in love with. But I would strongly recommend that you dont go out with her until your successes with other women start trickling in. But at the very least, have other irons in the fire. Shes just another piece of pussy and you'd like to fuck her again (not that your disrespectful of her or anything) is probably the best attitude. A book that I find kicks ass is "How to be an alpha male by John Alexander". Its more practical and down to earth than the game and doesnt demand the psychotic cold-blooded courage of same which is for more advanced dedicated students (not me anyway!). Also Ron Louis material is brilliant. He has some really cool books that can give all the foundation material to find your own seducer, one that resonates with who and what you are. As for your ex, whatever you do, move on with your life and show no mercy because you sure as hell wont be given any. Good hunting! :wink:


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Some great advice findra. How come you have so little posts? They're great.
When I do go out with her, I'll be sure to have my 'hybrid game' ready ;)
I've seen that book recommended by a lot of people here, but still haven't looked into it. I'll go and read it this week. Thanks a LOT!


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Some great advice findra. How come you have so little posts? They're great.
When I do go out with her, I'll be sure to have my 'hybrid game' ready ;)
I've seen that book recommended by a lot of people here, but still haven't looked into it. I'll go and read it this week. Thanks a LOT!
Hey Roland! Thanks for the compliment :wink: I will be posting more but we all have to start somewhere!


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This maybe your final test!


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