| As I go through the forum checking the sections of "Newbie Questions" and "PUA Lounge", I get somewhat frustrated.
Now it's very hard for me to write this, but I feel I have to, so please read, it's my thoughts about what this "Game" is about.
Specially if you're a newbie, this is completely going to CHANGE your game, and SAVE you time; even if you are an expert, I'd like you to read, and I want your comments and opinions on this, if you know the game, you most likely will agree with me (or at least I hope so),
If you can correct me, please do so (This specially goes for the big guys in this forum; Charge, Xfman, Impact, I want your comments; if I forget you and you think you're a big one too, forgive) I think we are in this community to help each other out, that's the whole point of it. Let's start doing it.
So let's get started now, too much talking already.
The reason why I get frustrated is because I see so many guys who are so enthusiastic about this game, and they are really learning things that will not take them anywhere (actually yes, to bad places). The seduction has so many products, so many companies, they all try to sell you things, they all compete over you, and they are in all their right to do so, but FEW (notice I say few, so there is some gurus who actually do it), teach you this:
"This Game is about to make you better, not only with women, but also in other areas of life. This Game is something that takes time to learn, it has ups and downs. And most importnat, this Game is all about changing yourself to become attractive, not to base yourself on lines, routines, etc; this Game is meant to make the best out of yourself, NOT a social robot"
Most of guys go wrong just about since the beginning, I will hear things like:
"I opened up with the jealous girlfriend opener, but they answered to my question, and then turned away" (Reason: Poor body languaje, not according to the context, not adequate energy)
"I was showing a DHV routine to this girl, she nodded but didn't sem to enoy it, I didn't number closed her" (Reason: Your routine probably is TOO fake)
What you see in common? A routine, an opener, cool.
Now, did they work? Nah.
Do they work some other times? Yeah
What's the difference? The girls? Nah, The PUA's? Yeah
Some guys understand the idea of the game, your routines and lines should only help to maintain the conversation, and to convey some ADDITIONAL things about your personality, think of it, as a "Second-hand type of game". Your very first and best game is within yourself, it's your confidence, your beliefs, your personality, your body languaje"
Here is my point:
When guys start basing their game on lines and routines, they become someone else! and nobody teaches them that is wrong, that's what frustrate me. The more and more you look at openers and routines, the more you believe they are indespensable (I made this mistake myself too, of course) and at the end, you end up being this person, even worse from who you were to start with, THAT IS NOT THE POINT OF THE GAME
The point of the "Game" is to take out your best self"
Get it? I'll say that again
"The point of the "Game" is to take out your best self"
Newbies, don't make the mistake of basing on lines and routines ONLY, this will just dissapoint and you will waste a lot of time, these are the things that some gurus understand, but don't teach.
If you're going to use lines and routines, coool. Use them but at the same time work on your personality, work on yourself. Do it.
Wow, I feel better now, lol
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