There was this girl i met today. She was with 2 of her friends. They are hb8. They kept eyeing me laughing and finally one of them approached and gave me her friend's phone number. So when i got home i waited like 2 hours and gave her a call. Everything basically went bad, i ran out of things to say, i felt nervous, the reason for this was that all 2 of her friends were there. They started asking me a bunch of questions and stuff. So finally i gave the phone to my friend and he started talking to them until they had to leave. But yeah i need some help on turning this bad phone experience to become good because these girls are hot and i don't want to miss an opportunity. What should i do?? When should i call her again?? should i give up?? I need some advice

Thanks
Blaze

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the fails, the falls.
I'm like niagra
but I got right back up like Viagra.
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always text to build comfort before you call.
Calls should be short and to the point.

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So what should i doo?? Should i text her. since i screwd up talking to her on the phone? what should i say?

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I've been through it all,
the fails, the falls.
I'm like niagra
but I got right back up like Viagra.
-Tha Carter III

Nothing happened, continue gaming as usual.
never apologize (unless not doing so will make you look like an asshole)

I would call her up again and say "Hey how u been etc... etc... my mates grabbed my phone and started talking so I didnt get a chance to talk much.."

and do what "wtfpwnage" said: (never apologize (unless not doing so will make you look like an asshole)

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"Nice Guys" = Are bad guys who dont get caught!

Call her and tell her you can't talk very long because you are on your way out the door but you just wanted to tell her that you are going out with some friends to wherever you happen to be going. Just don't invite her. Let her decide to show up. If she asks to come with tell her to bring her friends especially the one you are not interested in. Tell her that you felt something with the other girl.

Yeah you did mess up...

Mistakes:
1. Waited only 2 hrs to call after receiving number. At least wait 2 days
2. You talked to long. Make it sweet and to the point. Example. You want to get together for lunch or coffee but you cant talk for long because you have somewhere to be.
3. You got your friends involved.

Now you want to fix it. Dont text. Just wait a couple days and plan a day 2.

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Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

read the chapter in my eBook on phone game man

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okay so here is what happened, I called yesterday and i bascially just negged her until she got kinda mad at me i said a was just kidding. Then i told her a few DHV stories. Finally, i told her i had to go and then she invited me to hang out this weekend. At first i acted like i am to good to hang out with her but then i agreed. But yeah i think its good with me and her now.

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I've been through it all,
the fails, the falls.
I'm like niagra
but I got right back up like Viagra.
-Tha Carter III

Here is what you should do.

1) read the Mystery Method (i prefer magic bullets)
2) practice
3) work on your inner game and reinvent yourself (working out/style)



Then come back and ask another question. This is a pick up artist site, not a site for AFCs to ask questions about their failures.

I will tell you some issues from the get go.

1) you didn't have the balls to approach them. They approached you. (DLV)
2) you gave the phone to your friend?????? (DLV)
3) you using negs when you have no fucking idea what you are doing.

I just downloaded your eBook. I'll be reading tomorrow when I wake up and I'll let you know what I think of it. I could use all the help I can get with phone game.

Oh and blazincajun88 how are things going with the girl?

Exactly. Ever see a band, or one of the band members, screw up on stage? They keep playing , like nothing happened. The best cover up is to not acknowledge your mistake, with few exceptions.

If she gets pissed when you NEG, you've either taken it too far or you were not SMILING while talking on the phone. Your tonality changes when your smiling and even though she can't see you, she'll be able to tell.

C&F! Not C& total gaping assshole

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- "Only those who are unworthy, ...get lucky". -CB

- "The larger an ego becomes, the more vunerable it is. Like a ballon while inflating gains more and more surface area for a pin to invade." - CB

lol. You are right on all those points.

...but; In all fairness, he did post it in the newbie section...

[quote="blazincajun88"] Then i told her a few DHV stories. [quote]

careful of telling the DHV stories. This can easily have the opposite effect! Like you're compensating/bragging... DLV

DHV stories should be subtle in their intention.

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- "Only those who are unworthy, ...get lucky". -CB

- "The larger an ego becomes, the more vunerable it is. Like a ballon while inflating gains more and more surface area for a pin to invade." - CB