i met a girl from class the other day and we clicked, i didnt number close but she looked for me on myspace 3 days later. we sent a couple of messages back and forth there was some c&f and some attraction goin on. but after that we haven't talked. so i decided to rekindle some rapport. i sent her a message saying,

"don't you just hate it when you meet someone interesting and you guys never talk again?"

did i sound too afc or what? im sure i can turn whatever answer she gives me into a DHV or C&F oppurtunity, but im just wondering if that sounds too weak.

why didn't you just ask for the # cuz then you could have established rapport a lot easier

UPDATE

yeah i know i should have number closed. it was a big step back for me. basically she responded back to me with

"what is that supposed to mean? are you tryin to hint something?"

i felt this message was a cold "what the hell does this creep want" kind of message so i tried to play around and wrote back

"nah, its just a game i thought you knew how to play, unfortunately you didnt win this time. better luck next time kiddo!"

and she responds back

"your lame."

i couldnt think of anything else but playin it off.

"hahaha. now we have something in common! i had a such a lame time chit chattin but its getting late. goodnight! =]" and it was late and i had to really go, but i admit i think i lost that battle. oh well. all i can do is go to class like it was no big deal to me.

You blew it. She may have been thinking "What does this creep want?" but she ALSO may have been interested and playing along with you. You should've made the attempt there, because either way what did you have to lose? You wrote back a mean and aggressive response, which very much turned her off.

It's true, as messagings services via facebook or myspace are communication bridges that have barriers, you cannot sense pauses, breathing and all the subtleties we are fine tuned to decode in everyday communication. Go for the phone when ever possible, phone number wins hands down as your responses will be easier to encode and craft before your decoder, and you will sense the true intent of responses more clearly.

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lol wow... uhm u kinda negged her AFTER u already had rapport ... but she wasn't saying 'what does this creep want' she was getting at you missing talking to her. 'what are u hinting at' lol that statement u made about 'don't u hate ... ' was hella romantic ... no homo ... u probably could of got the number close n some f'action a week later. what u need to remember is that ur the prize n stay positive. and with that out lOok re-read wat she said before u pissed her off ... also women can go weeks without calling u back until they realise it so go with the flow n don't chase em ... replace em

dude thats a good message i think, good opener, get number as fast as possible cuz u already done the comfort thing

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i thought this was a lost cause. i can still save this? hahah. i think im gonna just go up to her after class and just be coo bout everything and not awkward