Joined: Thu Jan 18, 2007 2:11 am Posts: 1059 | Phone Game
Someone requested this.
The only reason you use phone game are below
1.)You are in a different city to her, have to keep in contact.
2.)You want to meet her off the net, she has to know your real and safe.
3.)You don’t want to use msn and microphones to chat, and you want to build more comfort or make up in a lack of game prior to clean out the edges and transition into your next step better.
Aside from that I can’t possibly figure out why you’d use this, but whatever, I’ll share my knowledge and you all can take whatever value from it. I’ve meet countless people of the net and in real life and have used the phone allot. I generally avoid this, there is sms and msn, but if
she really must, go for it. When i answer the phone I don't fool around, my game is always on, so is my "man" state. Women judge you all the time if your a potential suiter or not. So be aware of this, if they start making nonsence on the phone just say
Example:
"hey babe I've got a few girlfriends coming over in a hour, gotta clean up the place, gotta run, msg me next week i should be free, you can help me pick out a costume in the city for my friends 21st"
Here is what you can do. If you are insightful enough you could probably make her masturbate over the phone in the first few minutes, and she will be all over you. Or if she’s not as sexually open and slut factor comes in you can reap the consequence of her never meeting you again and keeping it on a phone basis, because she will deny her sexuality and femininity. Nothing to get emotional over, since your in this game you’ve accepted the terms of it, and now your gliding the wave that’s already there. On that note its probably best to never ever do anything sexual over the phone. However it probably wouldn’t be a bad idea to build anticipation, so next time she sees you it will be like a big coming, in her mind anyway, you’ll play it cool and confident.
If your in a different city and she’s already someone you meet then on the phone all you have to do is build comfort. A way to adjust it to a slightly sexual mode is to slow down your voice and let the “growling” tone accentuate in your voice, while talking about something else completely. She will inherently say “you have such a hot voice babe” or tell you she’s not wearing a top. You should never have phone sex don’t go there. Build anticipation, move her through a series of emotions through story telling. Do allot of the, “if we were here together”, or “if we had to build a house what colour would it be” comfort questions, and move that into “imagine if I was there right now, gently..... moving... my nose over your ear, and biting it.. “ and then say “I cant believe I just said that, so anyway <story>” builds excitement. Always leave a conversation on a high. Don’t talk about regular things, like
“how was your day, what are you doing? How is your family” unless you can follow it through a “emotional sequence” story.
Now if your meeting her off the net, she will have to hear your voice, I don’t really read about online game as I have personally mastered it and my way works. But one asset of that is talking to her, v/a microphone or a phone conversation. She will analyse the F*** out of your voice (shes a woman, what do you expect?) and if she doesn’t initially like it tell you straight up and see how you react, always have something cocky to say! Its just shit tests flying your way, nothing significant to bother wasting your time over. Give her two different parts, you could run some cheeky comments and have a high energy then the next day give her a very calm cool insightful thoughtful you, make sure she sees your complex and you have more then one side. I found that generally that’s enough, I don’t like talking to women on the phone long, I’m generally very busy and me talking on the phone too long every night may signal the wrong message to her about my availability and value. If I really want to be tricky id put her on hold and then get off hold and tell her my ex won’t stop ringing me, and that she recently came back from a modelling shoot in France and she’s all rowdy its terrible, and go off into a story about how me and her met. I always avoid talking about her past relationships, or experience I don’t care about her, I want her to get to know me, at the same time I’m qualifying her. Also know when to cut conversational threads, one thing about phone game is that when you do it often you get used to multiple conversation threads. Make sure you don’t talk about her dumb dog for hours, who cares what she’s talking about, trust me you have better things to say then to listen to her dumb story’s that inherently don’t go anywhere and you’ll be blamed and punished for if you listen to anyway. By the same token don’t be a asshole and don’t listen to anything she says. I like interrupting her conversation like if she says
HB: “I saw the cutest kitten yesterday..he..”
Impact: “You know I was actually thinking about getting a cat, I need a really cool unique name for him tho, like” Lazarus the great” yeh that’s totally what I’m calling my cat”.
HB:”haha cute but I want to”
Impact:”Or James Brown after the singer that’s superb, anyway you were saying?”
I give her permission to talk on my terms, I’m the man I’m the safe net in her life, who can protect and take care of her, I know, I am, she follows.
If she left the city and she’s thinking subconsciously of coming to see me, and ringing me ill just tell her cool stuff about this place and cool stuff me and her would do if she was here in Sydney. I will never brag or pout for her to come over or any of thatbullshit.
That’s it. Don't really know what else people need for this, its not really that useful. If anyone else wants to post their ideas or game on here, if you find more use for it, by all means...
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