My problem is, I have no problem just dancing with girls and grinding on them on the dance floor, but I usually don't really have much to say other than the usual "what's your name" stuff. So I can never take her from dance floor game to sit down and start talkin game.

And I don't really know what to do if we're talking, and she goes "let's dance". What if she's a friend and I haven't kino escalated enough yet? I think that just grinding with her would ruin my chances, but if I don't, other guys would go for her, and what would I do in such a sitation?

to bump this thread and to clarify what I said above, I basically somewhat know whatto do in a sitting down and chat/routine situation, and I somewhat know what to do ifI want to dance with a girl, but I don't know how to connect the two. What if I wanna sit down with a girl after dancing with her for a while? What if I'm chatting with a girl, and she says "let's dance?"

I see where you're coming from on this one and I've had the same problem as well. Basically I try to avoid places where I have to battle the music to talk to a hb. I strongly prefer to go to a lounge kind of place where the music is softer and you can just sit and chill to talk than a club, unless the club has an area where you can go to get away from the music.

If you have to go to a noisy place, I think the best strategy is to dance for a few songs, make eye contact and build silent repoire, then at the end of a song take her hand and lead her away from the music, preferably to the bar or a place you can talk.

Trying to battle the noise of a dance floor is a lost cause.

just lean in closer, and talk in her ear. it allows for kino too.
And you say your dont know what to talk about when you are with her?
Ask her funny questions, tell her a dhv story, use the surroundings to make convo, hopefully then you'll find spome topic that you both hit it off too

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Hmm you kind of misunderstood me. I do know what to talk about in a sitting-down kind of situation, but while we're dancing, I think it's kind of hard to tell a DHV story or use PUA material?

It's called 'dance floor' for a reason; to dance! Dance/grind with the girl you want to, ask her name. Nothing more. You could tell her that she kinda sucks at dancing and you're not impressed. She will most likely will jump trough your hoops.

After 1 or 2 songs tell her you're going to the bar and drag her with you. You do this by physically take her hand and guide both of you to the bar/lounge to get yourself(!) a drink. You can also tell her you're going to get a drink and she should come with you. Girl will most likely will shit test you by asking if you would buy her a drink, and off course you will pass (by not buying a drink for her..) .

This also leads to this topic: get-women-to-commit-to-interactions-wit ... 19874.html

Oh, and this is all theory. It pretty much depends on your body language and your confidence in general. If those sucks, you will not even get her to the bar with you for example.

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