OK, I can't stand this. No matter how many messages I send out, no matter what I say, I can't even get A SINGLE RESPONSE! Due to a car accident I'm recovering from, I can't go out more than once a week so ONLINE SAEGING is about all I can do for the next few months but this repeated rejection is killing me and what is worse; it is literally making me resent and hate attractive women! I'm not ugly, or fat or anything like that. I just don't know what to do in order to capture a woman's attention with my initial message. Any suggestions for sarging online would be greatly appreciated. Thanks -Dave

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Don't get down on yourself man. That's only going to lead to more problems. Just remember that you are the prize and you need to demonstrate that...if they don't want you then screw them...there are lots more out there. Do you have any examples or reports so maybe we can help ya there?

Have you tried the poke method? Try fixing up your profile page and using some DHV and pre selection pictures.

I found whoopies method to be fantastic.

you are too hung up on getting a response,
try sending a message that does not require a response lie
'your hair looks funny on you'
just send her a neg, and leave it that



just go with it

relax, i can sense you are too cought up on the outcome,

I picked up a chick last night online, I told her I met most and excceded the standards of her "stringent" attributes she listed, most guys would not have even tried after reading her "List" ... I played her well throughout the conversation sharing my travel experiences and my accomplishments, she's a U.T educated corporate burnout that has become a second grade teacher.....Then she called me at 5a.m to say have a good day! Hell, I wouldnt have answered but I couldnt see who was calling,, then she called on her lunch break, Duringthe conversation I made myself unavailable for a get together anytime soon, which prompted her to ask "So, when are you going to take me out for dinner?" I replied I hardly knew her and didnt know if she was worthy, and to slow down. I'm sure she will be coming by to see me later at my shop...... Hmm, She's seems so eager that its kinda weird.... Game on,, Sarge

your needyness is coming through in droves

calm down, use trivials method and read some of my posts, trust me that shit works if you work it right

worst comes to worst, ill help you out in IM, i do so rediculously well online its hard for me to go work on my regular game, although i do when i meet them

but if done right (like i said in another thread) you can build a lot of attraction and practically have the deal closed when you meet her

ive talked about my most recent f'close a few times in these threads, the first time we met she layed right down on my bed and i k'closed her within an hour, the second day i f'closed (5 days after meeting her online by asking if she was wearing a wig)

remove anything on your profile that mentiosn being in an accident and currently not being 100%

Yeah, I'm actually doing much better online. I think I just needed to find openers that worked for me so I have been getting plenty of responses though now after the first or second response I get stuck....so that's what I need to work on now.

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