I miss out on opportunity because I don't notice girls checking me out or noticing me when I walk in the room. I believe my wing man is successful cause he has that ability. How do you train yourself to notice the little things when you walk in the room? I don't want to appear like a vulture looking around and gauking when I enter the room. Do I need to work on my periferal vision? If so, HOW? I can't afford to pass up the layups. bil

How do u notice that they checked you out if you didn't notice them checking you out?

Basically If you want to notice women checking you out with out you looking like a stalker wont work why? because you want to let a women know your checking her out its the best thing to do. Our subconcious mind does this thing when where in a room surrounded by other people so when you stare at a women sooner or later she will look at you because shes checking her surroundings and when she does you will smile at her and wala.

You just scan the room. Dont stare just scan.

Also, you mentioned that you have a wingman...well have him nudge you and tell you to approach a certain set. Thats part of being a wingman.

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Yes, my wingman was letting me know that girls were giving me a double take and stuff. So...maybe I shouldn't be concerned about looking around as long as i don't stare ? My wing has this amazing radar that is rediculous. I need that. Any other suggestions?

I dunno what to tell you. Just try to be more observant. Over time you'll come to recognize it. I used to be clueless about that too, and now I can usually tell as soon as I walk into a room which girls are staring me down for attention.

goldeneye- sounds like your name speaks for itself. Walk me through the unconcious process that takes place when you enter a venue. Step by step. My struggle is that by looking around the room i would give away all value and that I would lose interest. If you could articulate the process for me that would be great. bil

open ur eyes? haha nah jokes!, get more EC happening, look at every1 as you enter the room so then people will know you are a interactive person etc.. blah blah u get me.

when you enter a room with your wing, such as a clothing store at the mall...

Automatically start a conversation with your wing and make yourself look interesting and content with what you're currently doing, talking and checkin out clothes. After 30 seconds or so, just start lookin around the room as if you haven't been there before and take note of cute girls, girls checkin you out and other sets. It doesn't sound like it, but unless you're horrifyingly ugly you'll catch a couple girls' eyes no matter where you go as long as your lookin confident and interesting. Then girls will want your attention and your eyes catchin a glance at them.