Okay so i need some input/advice from you guys. got into a situation the other night, ill explain it to give you guys a feel to what all happened.

Friday night i went out with my good buddy to this bar for some drinks. when we were there we just both got a beer to start and stood off to the side, near one of the bars. I was half done my beer when i accidently knocked it over and spilt it everywhere on this table. this waitress came by and i automatically said i was so sorry for spilling it. she said "oh its no problem ill clean it up and buy us some shots." i then said "what sorry?". and she just said she would clean it up and then get us shots. so she came back with 3 shots, and a new beer for me. i didnt even have to pay for it, and offered to but she said it was no problem. Now this girl was a HB 9, perfect body, glasses, blonde, and seriously was unreal gorgeous. After our shots i thanked her and told her she really didnt have to do that and asked her "how could you do that wouldnt your manager get mad if they saw that?" she then told me she was the general manager. We kept talked about her work and my work, school stuff and finally she had to go do something and left. Every once and a while she would come abckt o talk to me a little bit more, and leave. finally after not talking for 30 minutes she came up to me and said "well if you ever need anything at all, give me a call anytime" and handed me her personal business card with her cell phone number on it. after that we didnt talk anymore and i left fairly soon after.

So was i actually being picked up/hit on or was it just a nice gesture from a manager? When do i call her? and what would i even say?

im stuck on this one, cause this girl is sexy and i dont want to blow any chance i may have of making something happen

Oh my god my dude she gave you the Freakin SHINY GREEN LIGHT GO GO GO... You have all rights TO BANG HER thats what it means lol

haha, i agree. go for it. call a few days after whenever this happened and set something up. she definitely digs you

Game her, she's obviously interested, call her up, go out with her somewhere , have a good time!

Advice:

1) DON'T go for drinks with her at her place of business. If you worked somewhere 8 hours a day, you probably wouldn't want to go back to it at night when you're supposed to be having fun.

2) It's not clear if she's looking for a relationship or a one night thing. You should feel that out while you are gaming her.

3) Never chase beer with shots. I'm surprised you didn't have to apologize a second time after you puked all over the bar.

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Call her the next day, you can use one of two lines here, depending on how direct you like being..

-I was doing my laundry when your business card dropped from the pocket of my pants, funny huh? So what have you been up to?

-Hey its ___ from the bar last night, how was the rest of your sift? Just called to see if you wanted to meet me FOR a drink instead of meeting me wth the drinks..

Just call her soonish, dont wait like the fucks on this site tell you.

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What a title!

yeah im going to call her tomorrow, 2 days after the night we met. thanks for the input guys

i'd say it was a combination of her hitting on you and of her making her bar look really good.

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Okay so guys i called her and her phone is off, didnt ring went straight to the answering machine.

So...do i leave a message, or do i wait till i get a ring next time??

need input asap lol thanks

General manager of a restaurant--she's a busy lady, give her the benefit of the doubt. Call her and leave a message and your number, in case it doesn't come up on the ID.

So i called this girl and left a message, said who i was and thanked her for the drinks and to give me a call, leaving my number. haven't heard anything from her at all.

should i attempt to give her a call again or what would be the best thing to do?

just give it a few days, if she doesnt respond then give her a follow up call and if nothing then just move on. u dont wanna look desperate here, but im sure if she wants u she will call u back.

alright ill try it again here. its been about 5 days since i last called. what would be best for me to say ? haha im stuck on this one

Soi her immediatly-state your intent.
Tell her shes going out with you, dont ask her.
keep th call short and sweet,d ont overanalyse it, or tak too long, this will make you seem clingy.

i agree with Moot. u need to call up and when she answers identify who u are so she knows and tell her u are taking her out so when is she free. if its her voicemail, do the exact same thing. she will have had plenty of chances to return ur calls. if she never returns ur call then who cares. go out and find some more hotties! id just wait a while before u went back to the bar so u dont seem stalkerish lol.

-Patience