I've been checking out different sites and books on the PUA subject and just bought "The Game". Really great stuff, but I'm having trouble with my self confidence. I'm a bartender and a really good-looking guy and women flirt with me very often. I just can't seem to get the nerve to play the game through. I'm definitely not a virgin, but it's been so long since I've actually approached a woman, I just freeze as I watch all the other guys take home the girls that actually approached me first.

I have a friend who actually watched 6 very attractive girls, having a bachelorettes party, invited me (begged even) over to their cabin "ALONE" and I rejected the offer. I kick myself daily for that one.

WTF is wrong with me? HELP!!!

Low selfesteem it seems, try doing shocking things, say stupid shit make yourself look fucked up with people you dont know..say anything mate..just walk up to some random hb and say she has nice tits/ass or whatever..most of the time they will probably just smile and walk away but then you'll be numb to rejection because thats what seems to be bothering you, Dont say any of the nice guy bs complimenting her nice eyecolor..haha


here try this;

You: *Caugh* Ohh excuse me...I just wanted to tell you something..

Hb: (either silent or->) mhm sure what is it?

You: You should go to the ladies room..your mascara is messed up *Smile*

then simply walk away.


SF

You maybe right. My biggest fear is looking like a dumbass. Thanx for the input. =)