Yeah, its me again...
right.. i am going to a premiere aswell. In Sweden. So what i really need is some advice on how to open a girl who doesn't speak your language
Can anybody give me some input?

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Well better luck next time... lol I really have trouble with speaking my own language with girls I just stick to english but If she was really worth it I would get a friend to introduce me to her instead of opening because its much easier saves you and her alot of confusion between talking and you can also use your friend to help you understand what she is saying and she can understand what you are saying!.

huge problem mate, i will probably be on my own... im invited with my dad and brother so yeah difficult difficult... will be a good learning experience though

and a bit of good fun

swedish women are bombs haha

any more inputs guys?

Almost all the Scandinavians speak great English, sometimes better than the Americans do! It's one of many reasons why it's probably my favourite corner of the globe...that and the fact that the women are...heavenly. Challenging/sophisticated, but heavenly. Have fun.

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I've almost only had foreign girlfriends (german, spanish, italian, japanese) and have had most of my best interactions in foreign languages. Speaking foreign languages is definitely a turn on for many women. Sometimes your imperfections make your use of the language unique and provide plenty of opportunities for humor and give you a good excuse if you say some dumb shit. I'd like to learn to further exploit use of foreign languages.

Ahm, dont try to hard and make it look like ur confident while communication with someone of different background/language. You could ask questions about their country wrapping it stories. Enough to talk about for sure!

Have a blast;)

I posted something on this awhile back and, in my personal experience, it is VERY difficult to game a chick who doesn't speak your language. The little innuendos and comments simply aren't there--and I am a very verbally based guy.

Ultimately, you just have to focus on the universals--body language, social proof, looks, etc. to build the attraction. Then, skip the subtleties. They will be missed in a foreign interaction. You will risk more loss and embarrassment than usual, when communications get crossed, but you must give major IOIs and do a lot of assuming of IOIs on her part. She'll hopefully be obvious too.

They will not get humor, they will not get jokes unless it is slapstick or something of that nature. Just get used to plowing forward and hoping for the best.

This approach should be tempered depending on the level of familiarity they have with the language, e.g. the more they know of your language, they more you can work in subtle cues.

Besides, you're in Sweden...if you're an English speaker, you can guess that they probably speak better English than you do...so I wouldn't worry.


Sidenote: If you use NLP or any other type of trance induction sort of thing, it will not work as well or predictably as normal, so it's best to skip it. I saw a girl from India (who had good English) at my old college get hypnotized in a stage hypnosis, and while she did get hypnotized, she just kind of fell on the floor, and flailed around when she heard the command. When it came time to come out of the hypnosis, she didn't fully, and one of my psychology teachers ended up having to put her under again and then bring her back out.

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