Wanted to see where most of you guys stand on this topic...So according to most of u guys' experiences is it better to ask a few days in advance? or for example lets say you call a girl up and ask her for a date the next day..? Which is the better approach, or does it really depend on the situation.? Any input would be helpful...
Thanks!

call her up..
if you get nervous, what helps is to call one of your good friends and try to loosen yourself up by crackin jokes or whatever. Then after your call with your friend call the girl.

YOU: How are you doing pretty lady?
HER: i'm okay/fine

talk....

then somewhere in there say
I am doing this and this and i want YOU to come or join me!!!

don't let her make the decision to say yes or no. You gotta be in control.

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Nobody is flattered by someone trying to get a date last minute. At least a day before you should ask her amd know what you want to do on the date already.

If she is interested in you she will agree and you should be able to feel if shes into you or not. If you can feel the attraction you shouldn't sweat it cause the answer will be yes. Dont psyche yourself out.

Good luck and don't be nervous. Confidence will get you far

Ok you wanted my views from experience. It is better to call a girl a few days later the reason for this is because If you call her the day after you will appear to her as a needy and desparate for a date you dont want her to think that now do you. So its best to call her 2-4 days after on your choice . This also works cause on her part shell be thinking ''when is he going to call'' and stuff and then you can suprise her with that and she will be very happy to hear from you.

Thanks alot guys for the advice, I was asking cause i wasn't expecting to be in town this weekend(im staying out of town for school) to visit some family, so i was thinking of asking this girl out again, i was out in a date with her two weeks ago. I kinda of felt that i had to ask her again because i wasnt gonna have the chance to be in town for at least another couple of weeks...and if i waited to long to ask her again, it would kill my chances..lol..But i did ask her out for another one tomrrw and she accepted, so yeah im satisfied with the results..haha.
thanks