dont know where to put this piece, so bear with me

so i kno this HB8 for almost a year, we started out as friends, never thought i would like her. but recently i fell for her. i told her, because i feel like if i dont, everything i do, she would take it the friend way. she told me she wasn't ready, since the finals and summer is coming up, we wont see each other for 3 months during summer. and i kno she had sex with this guy twice a while ago and likes him, but he never called her.

for a while it was awkward. but i handled it well, i acted like nothing happened. but recently, i started kino attack, she likes it, but sometimes she tries to avoid it, sometimes she would return some kino like stroking my hair. anyway, we got closer recently. we talk and joke like before, sometimes we would hold eye contact for like 30 seconds or longer.

so last night, her roommate's bf is here, so she came to my room to sleep, coz my roommate wasn't here. she does it alot before i told her i like her. so i thought she wants me, at least a little, since she knew i like her and still came in. she went to my roommate's bed first, then came to my bed to watch this movie with me. she leaned on my shoulder, and i stroked her arm and hair. but every time im ready to make a move she would turn her back on me. then she just said shes tired and went to my roommates bed and fell asleep. this morning, she was in my bed for 5 minutes, sleeping while i was up, then i lay down, but again, she has her back to me, avoid eye contact, or talk about school.

i dont know what is going on, i feel she likes me, does she want me? or she just still see me as a friend? is it that she doenst want me, or shes just waiting for my move, should i just grab her face and kiss her? or is just dont wanna get into anything before we leave? TONIGHT IS THE LAST NIGHT before we leave, so please! help out!!

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She does like you; she is waiting for an alpha male to take control and show that he a man who takes what he wants; her resistance is an attraction test. You need to escalate and even if she puts up verbal resistance (her words say no but her body says yes) you need to keep moving in and ignoring her objections (her social conditioning to protect herself from appearing too easy or like a slut) and show her that you are an alpha male who takes what he wants.

"she just said shes tired and went to my roommates bed and fell asleep. this morning, she was in my bed for 5 minutes, sleeping while i was up, then i lay down, but again, she has her back to me, avoid eye contact, or talk about school." --> she wants you and was trying unconciously to give you signals and you weren't complying so she gave up and went to bed (you didn't prove dominance and alpha status to her)

- Chris

that is... the worst advice ever. keep going if she verbalizes resistance? no. no no no no. If she says no straight up, stop, wait a few minutes, and escalate again. get her going. it sounds like your solidly in the friend zone though and shes just using you for boyfriendy activity

Have you ever actually tried doing it? I and many people I have advised have proven this tactic effective. Don't say it won't work unless you've tried it or seen it done by a real alpha male; I am not talking about the needy AFC "Come on baby" way but the alpha way of leading her.

What a woman says and how she responds are two entierly different things.

- Chris