London is the biggest pickup capital in the world. There are PUAs everywhere. I mean in your opinion what is the point of learning this if so many PUAs are out there ?.

If you get a girls number she will be stolen from you by some other PUA. I get angry with myself and all these people who are good at pickup. I hate the bitches who decided to go with some other guy.

Sorry guys i am angry and depressed of life and of women they stink

Kev

Well, to really get the woman you want, you need to stand out from the crowd. If the crowd has changed from being AFCs to PUAs, then you need to step it up even more. It's a sad fact, but I think originality is key here.

Just as entertainment shows, your act needs to have something special to draw a crowd. Being a PUA might not be enough. perhaps you need to be an mPUA or really find something special to make your routine.

I may be new to all of this, but I've learnt that being original is the key

~ Nag

He is absolutley right, you need to do something that is going to set you apart from the crowd and put you above all of them.

Have you considered using direct approach instead of indirect? If you've got the inner game to pull it off it can be fucking lethal.

- Chris

I just replied in your other thread, and highlighted the problems with your game. Focus on those and you won't have so much of a problem.

Your whole way of thinking is way too negative. All these other PUAs out there, alongside the guys with naturally good game are doing just fine. They too get women stolen away from time to time. It's all part of the game and sometimes you have no choice but to let things go. I don't give a shit about girls and I've had guys take them away on a couple of occasions. What happened? One girl had a short term thing with the other guy and I hooked up with her afterwards, the other one got into a relationship and she called me the minute things got sour. I could have been bitter because they ran off with other guys but the bottom line is that they didn't fucking belong to me back then, so what did I really have to be annoyed about? Nothing. If she doesn't belong to you then who cares what she does? She's probably shit in bed anyway.

There is always gonna be competition, and lots of it. However, if the competition is doing well and you are not, you need to look at yourself and think about why they're overcoming the same obstacles you're facing and why you're not. Your attitude is letting you down. Getting pissed off at them isn't gonna solve shit. You're making the problem worse than it is so stop making such a big fucking deal out of everything and go have fun. I do well because I don't give a shit. Girls see this and they try to make me give a shit. It intrigues them. I don't chase after them or call them a shitload or do what other guys do and that's what they like. If they think I'm stuck up or love myself or I think I'm better than them I'm not gonna start being nice and try and make myself look better to try and get them. Fuck them. I do what I want and I do it the way I like it, and you should do the same. You'll never be annoyed at a girl ever again.

Listen to Dalziel. He knows what hes talking about.
Quit over analyizing as well. It will make your whole life easier.
I am slowly learning that.

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success is my only mother fucking option, failure is not.

dude dont be so negative. and if theres a shit load of puas dont get worried just be better then them. so get out of that slump your having and pratice till they wount be real competition its that simple

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a man has only one escape from his old self:to see a different self in the mirror of some woman's eyes

Thanks guys its great to meet such a supporting bunch of people

Kev

Of course its worth it, if you ever want to get laid again.

You need to step up your game

or

Lower your standards.

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--Brad

it is ok it happens to the best of us


but show them up get better them all of them and take there girls because u r better then they r if u try hard enough.

go big or go home

Don't hate the players, but don't hate the game either.

You're new to it, just like someone new to basketball. You have to practice practice practice to get better. Of course your gonna miss shots or get the ball stolen from you, it's apart of the game. Keep working on things till you get better an soon enough you'll be the mvp

Hey man, I got some news for you...

There are not many real PUAs out there...

There are many people who have read the game.

There are some rAFCs. They know a few routines and a few openers. This is where most people stop.

Then there are the PUAs... To be a PUA you need to actually understand the game. You need massive amounts of inner game, most people do not bother about this. You need delivery, most people do not practice enough and stop after a few crash and burns. You need comittment and for a few painful weeks you need to eat sleep and breathe the game.

There are not many people who are that committed!

Do not worry, either you learn it fuly and become a real PUA, then there is not much competition. Or, you learn up to the rAFC level and you will have the problems you describe...

Phoenix