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That "Matador" guy totally lucked out with the little scuffle breaking out nearby just as he stole the girl from the AFC dude. Seriously, when you go and break up a fight and pat a beefy looking pissed off guy on the shoulder to chill him out, that makes you look so alpha in the girl's eyes.
Speaking of which, if you're a beefy guy who could snap in half some of the stick figures masquerading as PUAs on these shows, NEVER let them get away with patting you on the shoulder or the back IF you want to get the girl. If you let it slide, he's essentially stolen whatever value your naturally dominant physique had going for you. Always retaliate in a friendly but dominant manner, so if he pats you on the shoulder you return with a slap on the back.
On the other hand, if you want to give your buddy some added value, let him pat you on the shoulder while you and him compliment each other in front of the girls.
Yeah good points, it's funny, but ever since I started hanging out with some Greek guys I've been so much more comfortable with non-sexual kino with another guy, they're rubbing off on me.
Serious Q though - what do you do if you're not a big guy? I'm bang on average height, slender but pretty damn fit. So if a big guy comes up to me, pats my shoulder or similar ownership type thing what do I do, just return it? Getting pissy about it would probably be counter-productive, and for a little guy like me to slap a bigger guy hard on the back would just look aggro, so I'm not quite sure. What do you think?
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