Hey guys I need help making a good DHV story out of this experience. "My grandpa died about 3 years ago, when I was 13. I was down at my grandparents house for thanksgiving along with my parents and cousins, aunts, uncles, ect. One day after Thanksgiving my grandpa went into the hospital. My parents and I went home a few days later because I had to get back to school. About a month later my grandpa died. It devistated my whole family, we were all very close to him and looked up to him as a role modle (especially us grandchildren). I am the most emotionally strong of the grandchildren and a huge responsibility was put on me to confort the other grandchildren and great-grandchildren who were about 5 or 6 at the time. I did a good job and held up conforting everyone." That is what acctually happend, any ideas on how to make it better with more DHV spikes? Thanks a lot.

Death is not a DHV topic, its a rapport topic. ie we've all lost some-one in our life, your target can relate to you when you talk of it.
but it's best to leave death out of it, its not really a vibing topic

you need to find/make up , a story about you leading your peers

all the best

Personally I'd stay away from anything that involves death. The last thing you want is for her to start talking about people in her family who died... try and think of something more fun. I don't really do routines or anything but think of a time you handled a shitload of stress really well or a time you helped a friend out and structure it in a fun way. I dunno, you can make anything work to be honest... I mean, I went into town a few days ago to do a few messages and I bumped into a friend , so we chilled out a little and he told me about this kickass phone he got, and because of the contract he got a free Xbox with it as an incentive... and he sold it, so I was like fuck yeah! So I went and got a phone for myself, and my friend gareth happened to know a guy who was gonna buy a new Xbox that day aswell so I called him up and sold it to him. It was the best day ever, talk about luck! I had no money that day and I ended up with a brand new phone and £100 in my hand, so the next day I called up my friend from sweden and took him out for lunch cos he bought me some shit a while ago and I wanted to say thanks... and we had an awesome day just walking around town and talking to random people. It kicked ass. I guess that demonstrates that I have a wide circle of friends and they look out for me, and that I can look after myself even though I'm unemployed or some shit, and it was pretty much just a ramble. Also, rambles like that can be thrown in at any time in the conversation, or when things go quiet.

So, having any less morbid ideas yet?