| I know that already. I have just come to the conclusion that, I would like to increase the number of men, I NC on so that I do not feign for any one man's attention. I have always been high spirited. I just like to increase my numbers. I do not care if I restrict myself when I find the one. I am not scared of onenitis. I just think that putting myself out there will increase my status, and will work in increasing my ability to show HSV. Just two weeks ago I went out to a dance bar, with a 3rd date man. We were dancing when I had noticed that outside of my date, I had two other men oggleing me. I didn't mind, because I was a wall flower in my younger years, and love the attention I get, now. I told my date that I was going to go and get some water. He had already bought me several bevies by this point in the evening. I left his side, to go and get a water. One of the men that had been oggeling me all evening, as I was asking for the water, said that if I wanted a bevie, he would be standing over there waiting for me. Mind you I was out on a date with another man at the time. I even told him I was. I also was trying to cut back on the bevies, because I did not want to get into any kind of situ, that I couldn't handle later that night. Well I did get thirsty, later that evening, the man was still standing there waiting for me. I told him that I would like a Tom Collins, I talked to him for a while. Where my date couldn't see, of course. He told me his name, and what have you. While we were talking, there was this hot blonde, that was oggeling him, but he was doing anything to divert his attention elsewhere. I said why is it that he is hitting on me when there is the hot blonde over there, obviously wanting to get to know him. He told me that I had the innocent girl next door look, and that I looked sweet and innocent, yet mysterious and wild at the same time. I told him that I had to get back to my date after receiving the drink. He said that's all, your just going to use me for a drink. I then said that, that is all he was offering me. He said that he was offering more then that, I said what then, he said to go out elsewhere that evening. I left him stagg, right then, mentioning his aimless effort to Close on me. He was a bit dumbfounded.I told him that I knew that he was trying to pull game, but he wasn't that good. I even metionioned his peacocking during the middle of the convo. Pointing out his bracelete. I went back over to my date, I told him about the incident. I whispered in his ear, saying you want to make him jealous. We started grinding, and at that point in time, my date after three meetings finally got his first kiss. Both he and I loved this whole showing off in front of another man. This one guy stood and watched the whole night, as my date and I had our fun out on the dance floor. So as for that I have called men out on their PUA field work. I really liked it. Not only that but it really demonstrated to my date that I had (HSV) and that men like me so much that they are willing to blatantly hit on me in front of him. Needless to say, I have went out with my date several times since. He just offered to buy me an I-POD this weekend just because I want one. I am not into useing men. Honestly if I am into the man I don't mind if he does some of the things that you guys warn other men against. I think it is okay that a man puts me on a pedistal, and buy me things, basically worships me. I just don't think it is okay to do it too soon, when the female knows that men are doing it to buy her love. Or that they are doing it when there are too few IOI there.
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