I used to be a relative loner, with a strong personality of my own nonetheless. Always had an inherent feeling of superiority coupled with a 'don't give a fuck what you think' attitude. Always been a maverick.

Grew up in an all male school till 8th grade, had almost zero female interaction initially. I then jumped to a co-ed school where chicks and guys were totally comfortable around each other.

Kid that I was, I dealt with the new and strange environment by just avoiding any interaction with chicks whatsoever. Only in my second semester of my freshman year in college did I decide that this was BS and that I had to get into the game.

Ive always had a very strong style and presence. Very controlled and hypnotizing communication, voice, and tonality. Always carried myself very,very well. Looks wise, all decked out I'm a head turner.

When I got in to the game, attraction was not a problem at all. I'd just say hi to chicks at malls and I'd have them melt. I use natural game with some gunwitch and other random direct natural puas material integrated a little bit.

My issue is that since ive never interacted with chicks as a kid, kinoing chicks, even something as basic as touching her shoulder to emphasize a point, feels very forced and unusual to me.

Ive managed to lay a couple of HBs a couple of weeks into the game just by very strong verbal attraction, comfort, and seduction; after the kiss close, I have no problems with kino escalation.

I need help figuring out a way to ease myself into being comfortable with basic kino..right now this is the biggest hole in my game. Any help is greatly appreciated. Cheers

Start off doing like blunt obvious keno, like if there is two girls talking, aprroach them from the front and open them, and once your into a routine. when you make them laugh, then do things like put your hands on one of each of their shoulders, and be like,"ok girls, calm down! I have a very serious question..."
-->This works as a good compliance test too, if they dont mind your hands on there shoulders, then you know thats ok, so you can start to move on to more kino.

or

Try incorporating kino into DHV stories. Or even right in openers.
The drug dealer one works great for it, be like
"Can i ask you girls a question? Do i look like a drug dealer?"

HB's: blah blah blah,

"yeah, ok, cause this chick out front the bar was like --(no go throw your arm around one, and hang off her like your a drunk chick) --yo man, can i buy some E?"

This usually works good because it looks like your doing it just to tell the story better, but it works great for kino.

or

I really like this one.
-->When you are talking to HB's, be like, "oh, i really like your watch/bracelet/ring/necklace!"
Then grab there hand or gently grab the center piece of there necklace and graze there neck, and then just ask,"where'd you get this, cuba?" or "ok, there HAS to be a story behind this piece of jewlery, tell me" or "sweetheart, this is doing nothing for you, you need something that brings out your eyes more" Then throw in a playful nudge, thats kino too

-->those are three easy ways, kino doesnt alwasy have to be a sexy touching of the hip or anything like that, sure you can work it up to that as you escalate, but start off with more friendly kino.

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--Brad

Those are some cool kino routines and Ill try them out in the field, but my question was about how I can get MYSELF to feel more comfortable with incidental kino. Even if shes digging it, it feels awkward to MW and messes with MY state.

I have absolutely no problems initiating or escalating sexual kino. Its the incidental and playful kino that unsettles me a little. Odd, yes, but thats my situation.

I am new to the forums, and this is not my own advice. But I read it somewhere.

Best way to feel more comfortable doing kinos is jsut to try them.
1. Learn good methods that allows you to use kinos. Like things the previous poster said.
2. Then go out and try them. After you tried it a few times and you see that the girls don't mind you touching their shoudler while telling a story or doing a opener you will feel much more at ease when to the use of kinos.

Maybe a good thing could be to just go up to avarage-looking girls and open a set. Try to use some kinos on them, and when you have done that just say "It was a pleasure meeting you all" and leave. Hopefully they wonät have the guts to tlk to you again that night so you are free to Pick up some nice-looking HBs.

This was exactly what I did when i first tried PUAing ( flet very uncomfortable doing it) , I didnt care about number closes or anything, just opened the sets, said godbye, and tried it on the next table.