Ok guy's, I've found a problem.

I've been going to party's and shit like that recently, but I lose all desire to pick up women when they're intoxicated. I myself, after about two years straight, stopped drinking and doing drugs of any sort. I have absolutely no interest in using anything, and I now find it a turn off when women are all fucked up on something.

I feel this is strange, when I was doing drugs and drinking this wasn't a problem. It may have to do with the "college experience," you know when you get fucked up, you get as fucked up as possible. I find the more sober the woman the more desirable I find her.

I've been doing a lot of work on inner game in the past several months, making money, getting in excellent shape, and becoming as knowledgeable as I possibly can. I've stopped doing drugs, watching tv, and putting my studying first. I feel exactly how I've always wanted to feel, comfortable in almost any situation, confident, and charismatic.

The only reasoning I can come to is that I see people who use in such a way as uncomfortable, and insecure. I hate what I used to be, and seeing people hammered to the extreme is a reflection of how I used to be.

Now I know some of you think I'm being ridiculous, because women drink to get fucked, and I'm just pulling a "holier than thou" to avoid pick up. At the same time some of you may feel I'm doing the right thing, avoiding the possible rape charge, because of the fact I'm sober and their drunk, and I've become a person who can live an exciting life with out that.

Please people, give me your thoughts.

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dude, fair play man... from wot uv written all i can see is that ur thinkin seriously.. i'v stopped drugs now but drink like a fish and i rnt being funny but hittin on hammered girls isnt game its standard u cant get that good rapport cause they dnt know wot there on about and wont remember wot u'v said so its a waste of energy/and time.
its all up to ur judgement, if u think heir wasted then walk away, jus because you dnt drink or take drugs dosnt reflect their rite to do them.... so if ur with one girl and she has a few drinks but not a skin full are u still turned off cause no offense but everybody needs a way to escape reality, and findin ga girl who dosnt touch anythin an is still really interesting will be very hard to find... in my opinion anyways.....

-peace-

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maybe your looking for a problem ? understandable tho wasted girlies are less girlie and wasted girlies who get all childesh are intolerable. they need guidance...

No, I can stand a girl who drinks on ocassion, like a drink or two, it's only the ones who are shit faced that turn me off. The main thing about parties is that, even if I'm there before the drinking begins, just knowing people are there to get fucked up turns me off. It's the whole energy of the area, I can stand bars, just not college parties. Either way half the chicks at these parties are high school age.

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I think the reason you don't like seeing the chicks like that is because it's a kind of mirror of the old you. You've moved on from that stage and it sounds like you've put your life back on track. Maybe it's a subconscious thing, you don't want anything to do with them because it could lead you down the same path as before and it reminds you too much of an old life. I dunno, that's just my interpretation of it. Also, the sober girls are much beter, they're able to respond well to PU unlike trashed chicks.

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I personally did a similar thing to you. I have never taken drugs. I never drank in my teenage years. The first time I got drunk was nearly a year and a half ago when I was 20, because I never drank before it was a bit of a novelty and whenever a party came along I used to get pretty shitfaced.
Since learning about pick up I have not got drunk (the last time i drank was July last year). My problem was that I didn't just have a few beers to relax me, I would keep on going until I was off my face. I almost got beaten up a couple of times, nearly lost my job because of something which happened at a party. It was fun drinking but when you are sober and you see other people shitfaced (male or female) you truly realise how annoying people can be when they are drunk, which I was. When I was drunk my poor social skills would become blatantly obvious, I would seek peoples approval and generally just make a total fool of myself. I believe that if you are truly happy with who you are and your life, which I wasn't when I used to drink, you should not have to get off your face on drugs or alcohol

Im the same damn way man. I dont ever hook up with girls at parties, i hate drunk girls or girls on some sort of drug.

Just dont go to parties or bars anymore to sarge.

sounds that you like a new level of women, which is great

Haha, welcome to the club
do as me and daysarge.

Thats all I have to say, that and "Dont slip back to what you were!"

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Good thinking. I feel the same.

Actually, I like when a girl is relaxed, and if she needs little alcohol, OK. But more than beer or two, simply when she gets drunk, turn me off. I am not loser; I nor don't want nor need a drunken girl for sex. For me, it's as big turnoff as a smoker-girl. It feels like you are kissing spitted ashtray.

Drugs don't need no comment - when I see white powder being snort, or pill with "E" on it, I simply leave the bar/party.

Carpe Diem - but don't drink.

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