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| beyondevil | PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 2:53 am | |
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Location: Toronto | | I know a few girls that love to play silly games to try and gain control. I am at a point where I dont want to take it anymore.
She flakes, but would show IOIs the next day, flakes again but IOIs. Its like she is trying to push/pull.
I told her "you know you used to have this really great energy to you...but now somethings different. You're probably just having a bad weeks, lets chat again when things are better" was that a bad move? Is there any way I can let her know that I dont tolerate crappy behaviour?
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| aim2pleezdj | PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 3:13 am | |
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Posts: 42 | | well i have the same shit going on with me with this girl right now...so i feel u.
like she use to pick up my calls instantly, but now she calls me exactly like 24 hours later in that exact same hour.
it pisses me off, cuz she probably learned it from her stupid mexican roommate...
but im a G, so fuck the games a hoe plays...let her play them. and then be like, yea i had something to tell u earlier but you were too slow...so u missed out on something.
dont let her know it even bothers u...
M-O-B...money over bitches all day
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| cc | PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 3:39 am | |
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Location: az | | i too am having some difficutles lately with woman i know they all seem disinterested yet show me IOIs and other people that i know have told me i am a ladies man player playboy etc... but when i ask these woman out they say no yet i hear those other things from people. And to make it worse i am oblivious to woman alot of times going about my day thinking they dont like me
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| Killians | PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 4:18 am | |
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Location: U.S | | She is either messing around with you because she likes the attention but is really not that interested or she is trying to show that she is not clingy/needy. Yes, girls have to do that too. If its a continuous cycle then you need to just drop her. Sometimes when you do that she'll come around.
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| ConspiracyTheory | PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 4:31 am | |
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Posts: 172 | | i dunno some guys misinterpret things as IOIs
i'm not saying that's the case, but you didn't mention what the IOIs were
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| beyondevil | PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 4:44 am | |
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Location: Toronto | | small things man like texting me every morning, always trying to initiate a conversation.
I number closed but cant get a date.
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| Killians | PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 5:01 am | |
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Location: U.S | | Well, I believe the term is called "freeze out". Dont respond to her texts as much. Give off the vibe that you are busy. Make her initiate a date since you have already done it twice.
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| beyondevil | PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 5:12 am | |
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Location: Toronto | | I dont. Whenever she sends me a text "good morning" i dont reply. If I ever go on msn, she always messages me first.
I am trying a bit of push pull. I didnt respond to her for a week. Spoke a bit this weekend, but was distant. I was trying to be cocky funny, but there wasnt much to go on. I have a date next weekend with someone else, but I just have a lot of comfort and rapport with this one.
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| B-radd | PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 7:03 am | |
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Location: Edmonton | | Dont let her string you along. Girls read shit like that in there cosmo's all day, "don't give in to your man too easily" blah blah.
If she ditches out once, i would say something like, "oh ok i can hang with the boys now" or "thats cool ill call *lisa*"
Then if she flakes again, i agree, freeze her out. Dont ignore her, but act like your preoccupied, and dont invite her to do anything until she asks you to do something. Then tell her, "wed doesnt work i have plans, we will do it thurs" and get back in control
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| beyondevil | PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 2:08 pm | |
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Location: Toronto | | Got it.
When she asks "so what are you doing tonight" or " have you seen this movie"
Should I respond with " you know... if you want to hang out all you have to do is ask and offer some cookies."
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| B-radd | PostPosted: Mon May 19, 2008 7:37 pm | |
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Location: Edmonton | | haha i like that cookie response.
I think that would work great.
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| beyondevil | PostPosted: Wed May 21, 2008 3:24 pm | |
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Location: Toronto | | So I text her today
Me: "knock knock"
Her "Hey who is this"
Me: "Wow! Guess this is goodybye nosepicker" - my nick for her
Her "sorry I thought you were a co-worker"
Me" goodbye kiddo" - another nick
Her: OMG ur such a child
WTF was this?
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| beyondevil | PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 1:33 pm | |
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Location: Toronto | | Why would she think I would not be offended if she deleted me?
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| Solomon II | PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 2:00 pm | |
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Location: Belfast, N. Ireland | | Stop being silly and move on. If a girl flakes on me I give her another chance if her excuse seems genuine... if it happens again I stop talking to her immediately. Don't text her or call her to let her know you aren't speaking to her anymore in the hopes of getting a response or that she'll change her ways and come meet you, I see guys do this all the time and it doesn't work. Just cut all contact and move onto the next one.
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| beyondevil | PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 2:07 pm | |
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