what are some Indicators Of Interest to tell if the girl is interested in me, and whether i can go for #close, kiss, etc.

Here are some, feel free to add to it

-Play with her hair
-gets her hands close to where my hands are resting, especially if sitting next to each at movies, etc.
-her body leans towards you

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-Mirrowing you
-Compliments
-Giggley or smiling alot
-Touches you
-Playful and challenges you
-blinking/dilated pupils
-she lets you get away with things and do things she would'nt normally let people do
-keeps eye contact when talking
-takes intrest in things you've been upto and ask about your future plans

Use a compliance test before closing if you're unsure

-complies when you ask (or demand) to isolate (or she follows)
-doesn't pull back when you get close and
-doesn't resist when you kino escalate

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thanks, you are a great help, and will definitely use the compliance tests

anymore would be appreciated!

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-If the target is sitting down, and you approach, her pointing her leg your direction is an IOI.

along those lines, if her body is turned toward you even tho her head isnt

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ive read in a body language book. that when u would talk to the girl she would grab hold of some random object ( a wine glass for example) and stroke it or fiddle around with it. Also, if she laughs alot at things that dont seem to realy be all THAT funny.

- Playfully trying to validate herself (ie: "do you think I'm cute?")
- Physical contact
- Willingness to spend time with you beyond what would normally be expected

At the end of the day, you and probably only you will pick up the initial IOIs, so be observant and use an analytical mindset to differentiate between signs of friendship and signs of genuine attraction.

-if she smokes her wrists are pointing at u
-feet pointing at you
-she reinitiates convo when a silence turns
-she shit tests you (i recon it it anyway)
-u say ur leaving and she wants you to stay

she plays with her necklace.
she flirts with you.
she passes to compliance tests.
Let me see your hands: she hands them to you face down.
You interlace your fingers with hers: she interlaces hers with yours and you're holding hands now.
The strength at which she's holding your hands.
You put her hand on your leg, and it stays there.
You point to your cheek and say: "now be a good girl and give me my kiss good bye." and she complies without hesitation.
Laughs at a lot of your jokes.
maintains eye contact for 3 or more seconds.
smiles when you look at her.
teases you (this is a thin line--make sure she teases you PLAYFULLY).
Asks YOU questions.
Asks if you have a gf.
Asks what you do.
Asks where you're from.
Asks about your friends, apartment, school, etc.

There are a good forty or fifty of 'em.

omg... i blew the close with an HB 9 so many times saturday night and I just barely noticed ALL of the ioi's...and she gave me lots, so ill just name all the places i fucked up when she wanted me to fuck her...lol.

-she sat on my lap when i was talking to some other girl.
-i asked the group who wanted to walk over and pick up my friend with me, she came with me.
- made me drinks the whole night at the party, and brought them back to me.
-asked me to take her home.
- got my number after 10 mins of talking
- gaveme her numbr when i gave her my phone
- let me touch her upper legs w/ SHORT shorts on while i casually talked.
- showed me her tattoo thats below her panty line!!!

wow... WHAT THE FUCK WAS I THINKING! I blame the alcohol, but I dont even know man. I was the life of the party, several girls on me the whole night, and i didnt even k close, let alone f close. she was puppy dog eyeing me when we were alone.....*cries*

So, in conclusion... at the time, i was making excuses that she had a boyfriend... Now im making excuses that it was alcohol. The TRUTH is, that im still a virgin, i was probably just nervous about that. she was practically throwing opportunities at me to go have sex with her...

Someone please throw some words of wisdom my way. thanks guys.

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I'm in the same boat.

like they said in the 40 year old virgin. GET IT OVER WITH. as soon as you do youll be much more comfortable around girls, plus if you meet someone you really like, you dont want to be a moron in the sack. Basically exactally what they said in the movie..lol

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wat are some indicators of interest if a girl is walking with you, i.e. if your walking and talking

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Maybe, maybe not.
It could be because they noticed something about you that is bad, and
they're laughing at you.

OR if you did it right, you did or told something funny, and it hit.

That's a good one, though--never heard of it.