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| GC Blue | PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 3:52 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Apr 15, 2008 12:08 pm Posts: 101 | | Okay so I went to the campus bar tonight. I talked to some girls that I was acquantainces with, in addition to opening a two set. Later on I was on the dance floor dancing and having a good time when I saw a good looking chick with a guy clinging to her. She mouthed to me that she wanted to be saved. So I pulled her in and started dancing. We made out for a while on the dance floor and then after a while that guy came and pulled her away. I guess she was pretty drunk.
I would say one of the biggest differences about tonight compared to other nights was that I finally had my inner game somewhat together.
Now for the real story and real reason you are reading this post. Later on I was dancing on the floor and I noticed a couple of girls dancing adjacent to me. One of them started kissing a guy leaving the other one dancing on the outside awkwardly. I figured this was my chance and did the butt bump followed up by holding my hand out for her to take and when she did I spun her. (I learned that move on this forum, forgot who told me about that but thanks a lot!!! That shit works) Then we started dancing together. In almost no time at all we were making out.
While we were dancing/kissing we talked a little bit. She told me her name and I told her mine. Some other small talk about each other. After dancing/making out for about twenty minutes I decided to make a move. I knew the bar was closing any minute and that ending on the dance floor wasn't exactly going to leave an impression. So I asked her if she wanted to go outside and I took her hand and lead her out behind me. We sat down on a picnic table far away from everyone else. We made out some more. We also talked some, found out how old she was, what she studied, what year she was in, etc.
A couple times throughout my time with her I complimented her. Told her she was a good kisser, that she was beautiful. I have a feeling a PUA would not do that and that it was an AFC thing to do, but at the same time I was being myself. Any thoughts on this?
Then after we had to leave the bar I asked her if she wanted me to walk her back. She said no, she would go with her friends. I said we should continue this sometime and exchanged numbers. She seemed sincerely interested in meeting up again. As she walked away she said I should message her.
So I have a few questions. Firstly, what did I do wrong? What did I do right? How can I improve?
How should I go about contacting her again? Should I call or text? (My instinct says call). This happened on a Wednesday night, when should I contact her? I was thinking I would either call her Friday or Saturday and invite her to a party that people are throwing next to where I live on Saturday night. What do I say when inviting her? If she accepts what kind of conversation and things should I say when she is over?
Thanks for the help guys.
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| el jimbo | PostPosted: Fri May 16, 2008 10:04 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu May 15, 2008 8:07 pm Posts: 30 Yahoo Messenger: jroamer18@yahoo.com Location: Barcelona. | | 'she was beautiful' I think that was the mistake.
Makes you needy. You are raising her status, and thereby lowering yours.
I know you are being yourself, but a little self-discilpline is needed.
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| GC Blue | PostPosted: Fri May 16, 2008 3:52 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Apr 15, 2008 12:08 pm Posts: 101 | | Thanks man. I appreciate an honest critique.
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